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writes:I am 19 years old, I have a boyfriend for 2 years now, I love him and he's very nice with me we also get along very well in bed.He is a german so he wants me to learn his language so I took a course at my university. I have never this type who falls in love wiht the teachers,the problem is that I find him too sexy and I have started to have sexual fantasies where in my dreams I do many things with the teacher and it's happening very often since a year now. It is very impressive for me how it turns me on everytime he looks at me. And this is becoming a bad thing for my relationship because it makes me distant to my boyfriend and it makes me feel bad because I can't stop thinking of sex with another man.My german teacher is actually german, he's 35 years old ,married and has a child. This has never happened to I'm normally interested in younger guys,I am sure there is no way something could happen between us but it's affecting me.Anyway what do you think i should to get rid of those sexual thoughts? I don't know what to do I'm already a year like that.
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reader, kendra30752richardz +, writes (6 November 2011):
 Yea! If you love him and you're thoughts/fantasies are this out of control you need to do some serious thinking. The man is married!? Whoa! I would say you need to avoid this man altogether. You don't want to end up breaking hearts and wrecking homes. This is a serious thing and if you fear you can't control your fantasy then you should withdraw from his class. Marriage should NEVER be messed with and neither should a relationship where people love each other. You may want to ask yourself how much you really care about your bf.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 November 2011):
 I understand that you cannot help who you think about. But it sounds like you are very happy with your boyfriend which is great. My guess is that this course is not going to last forever. So if the dreams happen well then you do not really have control over that, but if you feel yourself thinking about this teacher distract yourself until the thought passes. You need to tell yourself that he is married and that this is wrong. Look at your boyfriend, look at him and ask yourself what it is that turns you on about him and concentrate on that. Once the course is finished you will soon move forward.
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