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41-50,
*azsad
writes:hi i spit up with my girlfreind on Saturday and she told me that she got with thier neighbor who moved in on the Monday 2nd April next door to her and her friends say she does not love me coz i told her that i thought i heard her say i really love you to somebody else which ui miss heard and now she does not trust me and changed her mobile number, she won't e-mail me i really in my heart do still love this girl so much i never felt like this about anyone before, anyway after we split up she got with this neighbor and they're dating. You think she is on the rebound but truly still loves me?
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (13 April 2007):
 The love you have for someone just does'nt disapear overnight. She may have feelings for you still but her perception of that love has probably changed. The fact that she went to the bother of changing her number and so on proves the fact the she is trying to move on. You should do the same.
The fella she is seeing now could well be a rebound, it does seem very soon after, however this is not a certain.
The best thing you can do is give her the space and time. Chances are everything that can be said has been said already, and if she decides to reconsider things then thats up to her. Putting pressure on her is the worst thing you can do, so just leave it and start to get on with your life, (hard as it sounds).
Time can be a great healer.
Take care of yourself...
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reader, maria14r  +, writes (12 April 2007):
dont let her play games with you. you need to look for someone more mature and ready for a serious relationship. to answer your question she's probably trying to get you jealous so that you can beg her to get back with you. i dont think that she loves you and if she does then she's playing hard to get. dont let her get you into her games. trust me.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (12 April 2007):
 I think this relationship has run it's course. I don't think she's on the rebound unfortunately. Why did you split up with her?
Eve
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