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writes:hi, i am an indian who came to Australia for higher studies. i don't have money to pay my next year's tuition fee as i didn't get a job. i can't ask my family for help as their business went bankrupt. so, i asked my boyfriend for help (just to lend; i would pay back). he showed me so much love and even called me wife. i know he has money. he works at a reputed company having a responsible position. when i first asked him for money he said he doesn't have it. then the next day said he invested that money in something. then we had an argument. then, by mistake he said "i won't establish my love with money till i marry you". That killed my mind. I loved him honestly. now my mind asks me "did you love such a selfish man?". later he apologized and said he doesn't have money and if he had he would give.i don't believe. please tell me what i should do. should i love this person any longer who evaded me when i am in troubles?? should i go back to my country??
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reader, r5999 +, writes (26 April 2011):
r5999 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks mima and aunty susie. i need more answers please
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reader, mima  +, writes (25 April 2011):
 That is what I hate with asking for help. I wonder if he loves you honestly?. Was he generous with little gifts to you before this? If yes, then he isn't to be trustd because he can't help you big time but yet, some people are just like that with money. Perhaps he thinks you are with him for his financial help? .Strive harder for a job, it's not too late and forget the issue happened between you and your boyffriend. If a job proves hard to find, you can defer your studies and search for finances elsewhere.
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (25 April 2011):
 Can you still try and get a job in Australia, or is it too late to get enough money for the fees? If its possible, try and do it for your own independence. Then you can look at your relationship with your boyfriend and see where you stand with him.
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