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writes:This is a friend question.Yesterday I drew a picture of my crush and my friend saw, and she took a picture and kept saying she was gonna show it to him.And she actually looked like she was gonna show him so I was jokingly like, if you show him I'll send you photos through text.'Cause she always gets mad at me for sending her photos through text 'cause it costs her money.And she didn't seem to mind 'cause she was so bent on showing him the picture that I actually did send 20 pictures to her through text, to discourage her.And today she texted me"You better be happy that I'm not gonna have a phone anymore because of you."And I was like"You brought it upon yourself! You were threatening to show the pic to him!"And she was like "Aha yeah. Now 'cause of what you did I'm actually gonna show it to him. Fuck you"I can't believe she's being like this! She was the one being annoying first! And I warned her that I was gonna send the pics! If she really didn't want me to she could've told me, but at the time she was acting like it wasn't a big deal!Please help, we're both mad at each other now.
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reader, IamJess  +, writes (12 July 2012):
 I kind of get where your both coming from here;because in your defense she did start this and was threatening to show photos to your crush, but really if she did show the photo's what would it of done? You wouldn't of had to pay money or anything like she has to, but your side is that she would of embarrassed you so you tried to threaten her back and thought she was really going to do it.but in her defense she probably wasn't going to show him the photo and was just trying to wind you up because she knows you like him, so she tried doing that, but now she actually is annoyed because you have lost her phone credit and actually are costing her money, where as she might of thought her side was was harmless. You both really should just apologize, maybe you first though because you did cause actual harm and lose her some money. If you want to stay friends, I suggest that.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (12 July 2012):
There is a difference though.
She "said" she would show the picture to him.
Yet you actually sent her the photo which caused her to lose credit. Maybe she was being annoying first but there is a fine line between annoying and actually doing damage. You were the one who actually did damage which was to her phone's credit.
I mean if it was just a joke, then you shouldn't have sent her the pictures right? You should apologize to her, at least try to understand that what you did was wrong. Good luck, I hope you both can put such a petty ordeal behind.
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reader, I love TDG  +, writes (12 July 2012):
 Lmao, this story cracked me up. But you're right, she did bring this on herself.
Apologize and offer to pay whatever she owes for the picture messages, shouldn't be much. Like $10 roughly, but it depends on the plan.
Or if you don't feel like saying sorry, she'll get over it....
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