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writes:im really hairy down there.. good, bad?im a 16 year old girland ive been getting really close to this guyhe wants to finger me and see me nakedbut im too scared of him seeing me down there.also i dont know how to ask him if its ok that im hairy, bit of an akward convo to have with some1, even your bf Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2010): U should love your body as nature made it, and be comfortable with it. Many men like hairy growth. You should be liked for what you are as a whole.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2010): By all means, no need to rush. If you aren't comfortable, then wait. If he is a good guy, he'll wait too.
As for the hair, it really is a personal preference thing. I've been with girls that have run the whole range. I prefer when it is trimmed. It makes performing oral sex easier because I'm not wading through a forrest.
Ultimately, if I care about the girl, I love every aspect of her, even the stuff she's self conscious about. It doesn't matter because I care about her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2010): every woman has a preference as to how they like to be down there. if you feel like you dont like being that hairy then carefully trim it to make it look neater. but try speaking to him about your concerns...it will make u less nervous if you can be open an honest with each other.
you should never let anybody force you into doing something you're uncomfortable with, take all the time you need and if your boyfriend has a problem with that then he isnt worth it,dump him and wait for someone who will respect you and let you feel comfortable before suggesting to try new things.
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reader, It's all be okay  +, writes (27 April 2010):
If you don't want your boyfriend to see you naked, then you don't feel comfortable yet about having sexual relations with him. Wait. It might be that you never feel comfortable with him - after all, why is he pushing you on this when it doesn't feel right to you? That's just selfish. Wait for the right man, so it is natural and normal.As for worrying about being too hairy - just remember that porn films only shave off the hair so that the cameras can get a good look. Hair is natural. Any bloke who doesn't like it has just been watching too much porn.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 April 2010):
 Love your own body and you don't need to seek anyone's approvals on how it should look.
If you feel too self conscious, you can trim a bit and make it look neater.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (27 April 2010):
 he wont care lol seriously he wont care if he cares about your hair theres something wrong with him dont let him touch you. when you say hairy im thinking a bush or something not pigtails down to your ankles. but really dont strees it he will probably end up hating you if you dont let him fnger you because you think your to hairy, and you dont even need to have a conversation about he really wont care lol and any way you could just shave it or use some electric clippers.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (27 April 2010):
 Hon, if you're not comfortable talking about your concern, then you're really not ready to be getting naked with him.
If you're "too scared of him seeing me down there" then you shouldn't be doing it.
The fact that the conversation is awkward should tell you loads.
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