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30-35,
*oveitlongtime
writes:I live across the street from this guy and girl. The girl: 'X'and I, are friends, not best friends just friends, me and the guy 'Z' and I have a flirtatious relationship, and I made sure X knew that. One day I came home from school and I saw a car parked outside his house not thinking anything of it, went inside, got ready for the gym, and about 45 minutes later, so Z and X step into the car and sped off together.Angered , by this considering she happens to hang out with him right after I tell her how I feel, I text her lying and go, "hey did you get my text from last night?" She goes, 'no I didnt', so I carry on the story and re send it """". Then I go, 'so what are you doing tonite?', and she made it clear to state that she's hung out with Z. I said what did you do, and she goes well we had sex a couple of times.Infuriated I didn't answer, and the night goes by and I wake up the next morning, with a text on my phone from her, saying to me, 'I didn't sleep with Z, the joke was mean and cruel and I'm sorry' I didn't answer, and following I got three texts from Z stating 'don't be mad at X, because it was my idea, on the brighter side everyone thinks I'm a slut now', and I said to him, 'well they didn't hear anything from me'Later I felt bad so I sent a message saying sorry, and I said just don't sketch me out again, and he said he did none of the sketching, but then earlier he told me it was his idea...i spoke to X later that night, and she told me it was all his idea, to tell me that they had a threesome, why the sudden being mean to me? Did they really have sex? Are they lying to me? Was this a jealousy stunt?!?!?!
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reader, firstlovelastlove  +, writes (26 February 2011):
 That was mean. I don't think anyone would think this would be funny. He could be 'testing you' for a reaction and I'd say you sure gave them one. I think he's interested in you but if you become involved with him I would expect more 'games' like this.
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reader, ladyprestige +, writes (26 February 2011):
Whether they did or didn't have sex isn't the true issue. The issue is why would they say they did and X go along with it if she knew how you felt about Z? This sounds like a duo that are not trustworthy. In any "ship" being friend or relation, trust is the largest animal in the forest. If you have to question whether or not they are being truthfull, especially when your feelings are obvious, then that's not a "ship" at all. It's worth completely walking away from. This type of situation could cause you headaches in the long run if you can trust them now, at the friend marker.
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