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writes:Ok so iv just split with my girlfriend of 2 and a half years,as we no longer got on.I can't believe my luck when i meet a stunning girl who show's an interest in me straight away. We've seen each other now a few time,though its been at her house. Last Friday we decided to go to the pub after she's cooked me a lovely meal for my birthday. The night went very well the food was gorgeous and the wine was flowing. Time came to go to the pub and I could tell as we walked to the nearby pub that she had drunk more then a thought. In the pub she was very flirty, kissing and touching, being very nice.About 15 minutes later I got up to go to the toilets and just before going in I turned to see a man saying hello, I thought no more of it and spent a penny. After about another 10 minutes she asked if we could play pool to which I agreed. I setting up the table when I look up she's talking to the man that had said hi. This didn't bother me as she's very good looking and i know men will want to talk to her.Over the next half an hour she seemed more and more interested in this guy and kind of left me out if the convention. She wasn't flirting with him but i felt very jealous, so as not to be boring I had a game of pool with the man's friends and half way through the game I looked over to see her giving him her number! Now i don't know what to do,she was very drunk by this time.is this all just innocent ,And am i being insecure. She's not spoken to me since so I was thinking is she wanting to trade-in me for him? Hope someone can help me see things straight.
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reader, N91 +, writes (11 January 2012):
 Ridiculous behaviour, what a bitch.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2012): Move on. Like it or not, she is a tramp.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2012): I say move on. No point in investing time, worry, energy into someone who can't drink responsibly and be honest with you.
To me, this looks like BS games. Maybe she wanted you to get jealous and 'fight' for her. Is her narcissism that in need of attention? Needy if you ask me. Some women are clueless.
You just don't disrespect the man you are with, BF or not. You were her date for the night and held that honour and look how it turned out?
Moving on, right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2012): Dont be a doormat. Dont text her and dont do anything. If she gets in touch tell her goodbye. She has made a joke of you. Nothing about her is beautiful.
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reader, thinkb4  +, writes (10 January 2012):
If this is what she does then why would you want to be with her? Double check you have got all this right and if you have, then you have met someone who will bring a lot of unhappiness to your life. You need to make an exit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2012): If i was in your situation I would let her go and say good riddance. Its better you finding her out now rather than years down the line. I have had a similar experience and the shit doesnt stop. I would like to tell you theres nothing beautiful about her. Let her go.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (10 January 2012):
 This is very unusual - I'm sure the drink didnt help but even still, to give her number to another guy and then not speak to you since does indicate that she is no longer interested in you and is more interested in this other man.
I suggest you send her a text and ask her out on another date - see if she replies or not. If you dont hear from her well she is no longer interested in you and that is the end of it. If she replies well good news and you will go out again.
But her behaviour was wrong, although you are a not officially a couple by the sounds of things so perhaps she is just dating a few man and seeing where things go before she gets serious with one person. You may just be one of many I'm afraid, things are not looking too good here.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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