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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now, he was married before and he had affairs when married to his ex wife,some one will only ring me up every now and again and say he has been to the ex wifes house and also the lady he had the affair with as they only live 2 doors away from each other,i have changed my number more than once because of this,but i still get the calls,i really need help as i don't know what to do,
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your help, i will try and find out who is ringing me,and then i go to the police about it,
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (3 July 2012):
 Have you told your BF about these phone-calls?
If they keep calling I suggest next time you tell the person to stop calling you or you will contact the police, see what happens. If they do call again, call the police and ask what you need to do to have these harassing phone-calls stop.
I agree this is someone who KNOWS you. Why they/she/he is doing it I don't know.
Either your BF is cheating or she/he wants you to believe it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2012): "i really need help as i don't know what to do"Advance apologies for unpopular opinion, but given you state in your own words that boyfriend previously cheated on his wife during his marriage, I wouldn't necessarily dismiss these anonymous phone calls as being unfounded or untrue. Very possible he's now cheating on you with both his ex-wife and ex-mistress, especially considering he hasn't bothered to marry you so if he's having sex with either or both of them, this time he's not breaking any vows.You know he's a cheater, what makes you think there's something special about you that makes you different from any other female(s) he's treated so shamefully and disrespectfully? If he was capable of cheating on his wife, he's more than capable of cheating on his girlfriend.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 July 2012):
 Don't answer calls where the number is blocked and if they have there number showing then get there number blocked so they cannot ring you. They are obviously getting your number from somebody who knows you if they keep getting hold of your new number so be careful who you give your number to. Also do you trust that he is not cheating on you?
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reader, Starlights +, writes (2 July 2012):
 change your number; report it to the police.
Its someone you obviously know.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 July 2012):
 you've changed your number and still getting calls... it's someone who knows you...
stop answering calls that come in from numbers you don't recognize....
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