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writes:My partner of nearly five months is very generous and caring but the niggle i have is that he wont accept me as a friend on facebook and will not stay the night at my house. His ex is a friend on fb and i wonder if he doesnt want her to know he has moved on.we wont be seeing each other over christmas due to prior family arrangements. I have met his mother twice and feel accepted.we have arrangements for new year and going on holiday in january.i am 13 years older than him but dont notice the age difference...we get on great.why do i feel down...he does wind me up and tries to make me jealous....i dont bite but deep inside it hurts. Is it me being too sensitive.i dont feel our relationship is progressing much....am i impatient.when putting up his christmas tree he asked if i would do it next year...we see each other about 5 times a week at the moment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi thank you for your reply.....his family live away and he hasnt seen them since we have been together.....however i have spoken to his daughter (23) on the phone at his instigation.
i have met all his work colleaques and some friends. He has met my two daughters but not my son because he lives away.
i cannot understand why he wont stay over at weekends or why he wont befriend me on fb. I also dont want to get too deep into a relationship if his feelings are not there for me. But why do we see each other 4 or 5 times a week?
i will see how the holiday at the end of january goes.
Thankyou both for your opinions
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 December 2015):
 Have you been introduced to his family and friends or was it just his mother? If it was me I would be concerned why he wont stay overnight, to me that's strange, also if he is not accepting you as a friend on fb, that reads to me that he does not want people to know about you or else he is hiding something from you, either way if it was me I would not be happy in this situation.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (11 December 2015):
 I accept that FB plays a big part in many people's lives but it really shouldn't be used as a yardstick for how well your relationship is going. Who can guess why he doesn't want to friend you?
It feels like he is moving carefully into your new relationship. After all you are going on holiday together. That seems a positive step forward. Be patient and see how it goes. You may know more in February.
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