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writes:I love this guy but we can't be together because he is 18 and i am 15 going on 16.. we hvae been together 3 years and now we cant be together any longer because it is illegal. he said that maybe we should just wait till im 18 but im scared he will find someone new by then. What should i do? should i wait or just let him go? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): This was submitted by a male. Sounds like he is talking about a homosexual relationship.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (23 April 2008):
 wen you say that its illegal, im presuming that you are in fact sexually active with him. if your not, then your not really doing anything wrong, if your parents are fine with it and you dont have to sneak around or hide your relationship then i dont see why you should stop now. yes its illegal, to be sexually active with someone under the age - its statutory rape, but to be honest, ppl do it everyday - yes even the law abiding citizens. if you are both mature enough and really do care and respect for each other then i dont see the problem!! however, if this guy is adamant about waiting, then fair enough. if he loves you he will wait. but i cant stress enough how much it shouldnt be an issue - if your parents are ok with it. email me if you wanna talk hun, to be honest i think that you 2 should carry on being with eachother, be honest with everybody about it, and just be mature with eachtother. its not like your going to get arrested for being in love!! good luck xxx
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (23 April 2008):
 Just out of curiosity...It's been illegal for the past 3 years so what's made you decide now to put a stop to it all?
If he loves you, he will wait. It's only 2 years...He might want to date other girls casually, which you have to be prepared though.
Just think of it as a big test on his true feelings for you...
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