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writes:I think I know what the right thing is to doBut the right thing isn't always the easyist.Here it is:My ex dumped me about 3 weeks ago.He's try'n to get with one of my friends.The thing is...he is act'n like he used right before we started date'n.Like he ALWAYS hugs me,kisses me on the cheek and forhead,make'n funny perv jokes about me....ect.He always wants me around him.Besides that,he never goes over and talks to my friend yet he's always like"OMG I like her soo much I want to be with her"To add to the confusion....my friend never wants to be around him but from what he tells me she rally likes him and wants to date him after he meets her parents.Ex.Me,her, and acouple of friends were gonna go to the movies.Since I really want my friends to be happy I said"Hey why don't we invite(my ex)him to the movies so you 2 can have fun?" She tells him"Yeah the movies..I just want to go as frineds...that's all you get" When I heard that I just wanted to slap her.I still love the dude alot but...idk I'm soo confused.I mean,I talk to my friend and he seems WAY MORE into her than she is into him.(If that confused you,you know where I'm come'n from)Questions:1.)If he wants to be with her soo much,why does he still act like he likes me more??2.)If my friend likes him as much as e says,why doesn't she want to do anything with him??3.)How am I saposed to act around him??4.)Should I still try to win him back??
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reader, jenxlovesxyou +, writes (23 April 2008):
 from what i hear..he is probably just trying to get you jealous and trying to get you back..she might not even like him and could be lying to get you jealous alot of guys do this after a break up and if they still like the girl...im 14 and this happens to me all the time the best thing for you to do is ask him who he really wants and that he needs to tell you the truth..after he broke up with you he might have realized he still loves you..sometimes guys get confused and break up with gurls for no reason thing they try to get her back..i would suggest you ask him..and take it from there
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reader, jenxlovesxyou +, writes (23 April 2008):
from what i hear..he is probably just trying to get you jealous and trying to get you back..she might not even like him and could be lying to get you jealous alot of guys do this after a break up and if they still like the girl...im 14 and this happens to me all the time the best thing for you to do is ask him who he really wants and that he needs to tell you the truth..after he broke up with you he might have realized he still loves you..sometimes guys get confused and break up with gurls for no reason thing they try to get her back..i would suggest you ask him..and take it from there
hope this helps
good luck
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