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writes:my girlfrend she doesnt care about things that she does that annoy me, and seems to create a set of rules for herself in the relationship that are more flexible than what i can do. recently she has started "seeing" this new guy she met and she doesnt care that im annoyed when i see an inbox full of messages from him, or when shes texting him when were together. i told her i wasnt happy about all this and all she did was shout at me saying i wont let her do anything and that im too paranoid. she doesnt care that im bothered and i think shes planning on meeting up with him. whatever i say she won't understand that its bothering me, should i just dump her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2007): I'm in the same boat mate. Do you ever feel that you've been honest with each other from the word go? If you do, then you need to think carefully about the way you used to be with each other and how confident/secure you felt at the beginning. Try to remember body language especially. Why not sit down, say you're not going to get annoyed or wound up, but that ur gonna talk about your feelings (and be honest)and you don't want her to say anything. Then let her do the same (do not interrupt) but listen carefully. Sometimes the truth hurts to hear, but it is best said now than further down the line and if you like this girl and want her to remain in your life as a friend, you both have to sit down like adults and talk. It's hard! I've done it, it hurts. But hey, things are looking up. All I can say is that it worked for me, so give it a go pal. You've more to lose if u don't try anything.
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reader, chachacha +, writes (2 March 2007):
yes
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2007): dump the bitch!! she is way too self centered and must not care about ur feelings...unless u over exagerated...
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