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female
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30-35,
*adia92
writes:Hi,Sorry but this is rather long...I was texting this boy i fancied. We both started firting aot and i asked him if i was girfreind material. He told me i was and that he had thought about it and that we shoud give it a go. A week later he text me saying that his ex had come back from cardiff and she thought they were still together. He then asked if it woud be ok if he pretended that they were stil together as she had to stay with them for 2 weeks. I was unconvinced but said yes anyway. He then text me a few hours ater saying it was all a lie and that he didnt want to let me down by saying no. We then didnt talk untill the party a week later. He got drunk and we were with each other the whole night. He told me he had made a mistake and that he wanted me back. I thought nothing of it and said yes. Again a week later he text me saying that he was still in love with emma who is my friend and that it was over. We Didnt talk for ages as it was a bit akward. I decided that it was rather pathetic not to talk and i rang him. He had to go as he had a party to go to. He then text me late at night saying he realsied he made a big mistake and wanted me back. I was in love with him by now and obviously said yes. He then snogged 5 girls in one day so he broke it off again. I was heartbroken as he kept messing me around. We again didnt talk for ages and again i made the first move to sorting things out. We were friends again and everything was amazing. But i was still in love with him. One weekend we had cross country and dom won so we hugged =]. He then stayed out in the rain whilst all the other boys got changed so he could see me finish the race. When i eventually finished we waked up to the changing rooms. He got told off for being late but he said for me not to worry as he wanted to wait. He came back to mine to get changed as we had a drill presentation to do with cadets. The whole time we were flriting and got told off for touching as you're not allowed to at cadets. When we both went home he told me we needed to tak and he said that he realised how much of an idiot he was for not seeing how much i loved him and that he wanted to give it another go. I obviousy agreed. This was on the sunday. Up until the wednesday everything was perfect and better than ever before until he came on msn saying i had hurt him badly and that he didnt trust me anymore. Someone had told him the only reason i took him back was for revenge which was not true. He didnt believe me and said it was over. I was devastated again. I wrote him a letter explaining how much i oved him and told him how after everything he had done to me i trusted him but i didnt understand why he couldnt trust me. I still love him and really need him back. I Just Need To Be Able To Tell Him. Please Help Me Someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): You can get strong feelings for a lot of different guys out there.
Mess with players, you'll get attached to players and get hurt every step of the way.
Mess with decent guys, and you'll get attached to decent guys and end up happier.
If you think it's hard to break away from this guy now, well, it only gets harder the longer you put time and effort and emotional investment into him.
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