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People say "he's so not into you" - but is this true? Could he have feelings for me?

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Question - (10 April 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2008)
A female Australia age 30-35, *ute angel writes:

well i have posted a lot of questions regarding my crush and now i am here with another 1..i would really appreciate a lot of answers to this..and thanks to all the agony aunts and uncles..u guys rock!!!so getting down to business..well i am in this university and my crush is also in the same university we dont have classes together neither are our breaks together..everything is different except the fact that we study in the same building..i see him sometimes..k so i have seen me lookin at me or sometimes we would just have an eye contact and i would look down..and once i was walkin his way he saw me coming when he looked up and then he looked down and smiled to himself not to me..the other day i met him at the hall way again actually he was coming down the stairs and i was going up..we just looked at each other then both went our way but i turned back to see him but he didnt i expected him to turn back and look at me too..to be frank i thought he liked me but now i doubt..once we were in a room together in university..he was doing his work in the first row where as i was sitting at the last row doing my work and we didn't do anything,but when i looked up i caught him yawning away when i told my friends this they were like he is so not into you is it true does his yawn say so much lol..but i can tell u that once when i was sitting doin my studies his friend was sitting in the chait next and he asked him doubts about his studis for lik half an hour why did he pick him of all the people..i don know i am so confused??if u guys tell me to talk to him i dont mind but how do i start we are always walkin past each other and tht time there is no chance of saying hi!!where can i see him or meet him even if i do how do i begin, i want to know his feelings towards me

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A female reader, cute angel Australia +, writes (11 April 2008):

cute angel is verified as being by the original poster of the question

cute angel agony auntwell no he doent have a girlfriend neither is he a flirt..he is considered the shy guy..i catch him staring at me so many times..once this random girl from my class came up and told me this guy as in my crush is checkin me out!!she doesnt know how i feel for him

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A female reader, dearkelja United States +, writes (11 April 2008):

dearkelja agony auntYou shouldn't expect instant romance with someone you haven't had a chance to talk with and get to know. That just doesn't happen these days. So you will need to find a way to talk to him and get to know him as a person. Maybe you bring him a cup of coffee and tell him you noticed he looked tired the other day and maybe he needs a cup, smiling all the while. This would get you to start up a conversation in a non-threatening manor. He may have no clue that you are interested in him. Most guys can't read our signals we think are so clear.

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A female reader, Wisdom Australia +, writes (11 April 2008):

Wisdom agony auntMaybe he is shy?? Just say "hi how are you"? next time he yawns make a joke and ask if he had a big night out or something? You cant put to much thought into something that is not there....Just ask him for a coffee or something! Men somethimes like women to make the first move, you never know he could be asking his friends " is she into me?" Give it a go!

Good luck babe!

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A female reader, vsnod United States +, writes (11 April 2008):

vsnod agony auntIt seems he is not that interested, he would have made a move by now. If you don't mind making the first move and you really want to know how he feels you could try to talk to him. Also, how much do you know about him? Is it possible that he already has a girlfriend?

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