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A question about virginity for all the boys out there
Q. This is mainly aimed at boys but girls can answer too, i would like to know, if a girl said that she wanted to lose her virginity to you but didn't want to be in a relationship with you, would you mind? Or would that be a problem for you? Thanks....
A. 1 May 2009: I have no problem with people having sex with close friends for the release. but I don't think you should give your virginity to a guy that you don't love or want to be in a relationship with. just my opinion.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks it would be a turn on to watch me having sex with our dog!
Q. Hi everyone, I am 26 and have been with my current bf for almost 3 years. We have a great relationship, he is perfect in many ways. We get along great and have a great sex life. We are both very open at trying new things sexually and I will admit ...
A. 1 May 2009: as everyone else on here already stated, this is just wrong. your bf has a really disturbing fetish which he really shouldn't think about at all, but if he must, he should keep in in his fantasies. It's not only illegal [in the US, but I'm pretty ... (read in full...)
Views on sex based abortion
Q. This is a question for those who are pro abortion or against it. I know of a person who has been pregnant 3 times and each time she found out she was having a boy and decided to have an abortion because she wanted a girl. Do you think this is ...
A. 29 April 2009: I think abortion is wrong [&& I had one], but sometimes it's they only way for certain people to get by I guess. Idk, it's something I hate. I personaly see it as murder. but to take a life based on gender?? that's about as wrong as you can get. ... (read in full...)
I don't want my fiance to have a stripper!
Q. I'm engaged to my partner (we have been together several years), and he said the only reason he won't be having a stripper on his stag night is because i'm really paranoid (I have a mental illness). So, I said that I thought he was doing it to ...
A. 28 April 2009: ps- I just read your last followup and I'm not sure how to react to that. it seems quite sexist. ... (read in full...)
I don't want my fiance to have a stripper!
Q. I'm engaged to my partner (we have been together several years), and he said the only reason he won't be having a stripper on his stag night is because i'm really paranoid (I have a mental illness). So, I said that I thought he was doing it to ...
A. 28 April 2009: I would never let my boyfriend have a stripper. But I do tend to make most of his decisions sometimes anyways. He doesn't mind && if he feels strongly about something he speaks up. I completely understand you being against a stripper. But you let ... (read in full...)
I don't want to get depressed again..pregnant and can't take certain medicines..help!
Q. Hey I sort of have a problem I think. I have been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder. Apparently you can't have a personality disorder without being bipolar, but you can be bipolar without a personality disorder. ...
A. 28 April 2009: thank you so much. I think I can cope with it now.... (read in full...)
I don't want to get depressed again..pregnant and can't take certain medicines..help!
Q. Hey I sort of have a problem I think. I have been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder. Apparently you can't have a personality disorder without being bipolar, but you can be bipolar without a personality disorder. ...
A. 27 April 2009: Thanks. I should probably have added that money is an issue right now. so I'm not sure what I can afford. I am trying to stay positive. I spent 4 hours out in the sun, so I feel great now. I'm just worried about when it gets cold.. I don't want to ... (read in full...)
I was 18 weeks pregnant at the age of 15 !
Q. im 15 and i was 18 weeks pregnant i decided to have a abortion because i was scared to tell my mom and was scared of what people at school would say to me if i kept the baby but now im am so sad because i took a life :'( and i keep thinking ab...
A. 24 April 2009: I went through the same thing when I was 16. I was only 8 weeks along at the time though, I couldn't imagine doing it at 18 weeks, most places won't that far along. so it must be really hard on you. I don't know if this will help you or not, but I ... (read in full...)
Stretch marks!
Q. I've said this before but I'm going to say it again so that I can get as much help as I can get. I have stretch marks on my boobs, they aren't even big, only a size B and I'm size 10 and have been for a long time, so I haven't gained or lost weight. ...
A. 24 April 2009: I know exactly how you feel. when I was 15 I went from an A cup to a C cup && had stretch marks right on my cleavage, going across. they faded a lot after using palmer's cocoa butter massage lotion. now I'm pregnant and have them again in the same ... (read in full...)
My horrible story please read
Q. im 13. ive suffered from 2 server addictions. one-cutting two-over doseage of pills. anti-depresents. i want to share my story and tell some luckier people what its like to b 13 and have a bad life. It all started in 7th gade when some 18 yearold ...
A. 23 April 2009: well you're very young but if you don't want an abortion, don't do it. you won't get saggy, the vagina is elastic && you're only 13 years old so you shouldn't worry about that. I think you should look into adoption. I can totally relate to your ... (read in full...)
Feel like I'm being forced into sex stuff
Q. I am 13 years old and so far I haven't lost my virginity. I want to be one of the few teens who actually save it but like 2 boys wantsz me 2 lost it to them and I keep saying no and they ask me non stop and some other boys want me to suck their ( ...
A. 23 April 2009: How terrible! These boys want to use you for sex, but you seem to be a responsible young girl. There is NOTHING wrong with waiting. It's a good thing, especially at your age. You should stay away from these boys, not all boys are like this. If they ... (read in full...)
How long will it take the b/c to become active again?
Q. I recently started taking birth control, I started the bith control pills a week ago. Well, two days after starting birth control, I ended up getting sick with a sore throat and I was put on antibiotics from being sick and the doctor told me that ...
A. 23 April 2009: what satindesire said is very true. I was really good with my birth control. I never missed one, took them all at the exact time every day for over a year && I still got pregnant. we didn't use condoms because we are in a monogamous relationship and ... (read in full...)
Why would they wait until 24 weeks to deliver?
Q. I am pregnant, due on July 25th. About a month ago my sister lashed out on me [she has a drug problem, something I'm trying to help her with]. She punched me hard in the back and sides. After that I couldn't stand up and I began to have ...
A. 23 April 2009: yeah I figured that out. I just don't see how they could do that. but that isn't the hospital I'm delivering at [even though I live across the street from it]. I asked my doctor yesterday && he said that they will try to save a baby any time it ... (read in full...)
Why would they wait until 24 weeks to deliver?
Q. I am pregnant, due on July 25th. About a month ago my sister lashed out on me [she has a drug problem, something I'm trying to help her with]. She punched me hard in the back and sides. After that I couldn't stand up and I began to have ...
A. 21 April 2009: I know it's very uncommon for a baby to survive that early, but there is obviously possible. so why don't they at least try? What if the doctors didn't try with that boy? He wouldn't have a chance to live.... (read in full...)
Any special rules on DC?
Q. Are there any rules on this site for answering quesions as an AA? Any rules of etiquette? taboo subjects? good form? Or if this site like a knife fight? (Aint no rules in a knife fight.) I have looked around the site and have not found any. ...
A. 21 April 2009: don't type in all capitals. that's pretty much it. but if you post a hurtful answer it can be removed by a moderator.
it would be nice if you actually tried to answer questions too, && not just discriminate or judge someone. some askers will fin... (read in full...)
How long will it take the b/c to become active again?
Q. I recently started taking birth control, I started the bith control pills a week ago. Well, two days after starting birth control, I ended up getting sick with a sore throat and I was put on antibiotics from being sick and the doctor told me that ...
A. 21 April 2009: as long as you take it every day at the same time for one week [after your off the antibiotics] you should be fine.... (read in full...)
The adults on this site are so annoying!!!
Q. God, can I just say. Adults on this site are so annoying. I am 13. I haven't asked any... I dunno, sex related questions personally. But looking at the responses for people who are 13 and having sex issues like that girl with the vibrator ect. You ...
A. 19 April 2009: but sweetheart.. it's NOT normal. yes, a lot of kids do it, but more don't. It's illegal for a reason. I don't think people should be so harsh on young girls && boys on this site, but they're usually right. I try to be a little kinder with my ... (read in full...)
Even although I've had anal sex before and it didn't hurt, why did it hurt so badly this time?
Q. I've had anal sex before... quite a few times and all has been fine. Even my very first time didn't hurt at all. However... it's been a few months since and my boyfriend now wants to try it again.. so we try to.. but it hurts so much I'm in agony ...
A. 19 April 2009: is he using enough lube? you may have an injury in your rectal walls. what kind of pain is it?
ps- don't have anal anymore until it doesn't hurt at all.... (read in full...)
Is it OK for me to date an almost 17 year old girl when I am 19?
Q. Hi I have known a girl since I was around 10 years old and have always been attracted to her and thought she was really cool. Today she told me that she has always felt the same way about me. She is turning 17 in July, and I am 19 right now but will ...
A. 19 April 2009: in most states the age of consent is 17, so you should be fine.... (read in full...)
Tired of him being the only satisfied one!
Q. How many times do you need to have sex before you have an orgasm? I've had sex over 10 times and have come close but never been fully satisfied.I like knowing that I satisfied my partner but I'm tired of the guy being the only one who gets the happy ...
A. 19 April 2009: you need to talk to him about what you like. show him how to please you. make sure you're relaxed. If you're not satisfied it's most likely because he's doing something wrong. talk to him about it, but don't make him feel bad about it. have you had ... (read in full...)
Severe round ligament pain during pregnancy
Q. Hi. I'm 18 years old and 6 months pregnant. For about a month, maybe a little more I've had round ligament pain. It's gotten so severe that at times I can't even stand up. I went to the doctor yesterday but he got called to do an emergency c-section ...
A. 15 April 2009: I guess that's what I'm going to have to do. I hate hospitals but this is getting a little ridiculous and I have a very high pain tolerance. I'm going to the ER now.. wish me luck.... (read in full...)
Severe round ligament pain during pregnancy
Q. Hi. I'm 18 years old and 6 months pregnant. For about a month, maybe a little more I've had round ligament pain. It's gotten so severe that at times I can't even stand up. I went to the doctor yesterday but he got called to do an emergency c-section ...
A. 15 April 2009: I won't see my doctor until next Wednesday though. in the mean time the pain keeps getting worse and worse. Warm baths do help when I'm in them but the second I get up, the pain returns. I don't know what to do! ... (read in full...)
Was I unreasonable about his cheating?
Q. My bf cheated on me in feb with his ex gf and after alot of tears on both sides i agreed to take him back,On the condition he have NO contact with her.My exact words were "no calls,texts,online talk, Dont talk to her in lessons or anything at scho...
A. 15 April 2009: you did the right thing. I can't believe you took him back at all! well good for you for not letting him talk to the other girl. ... (read in full...)
I regret my last abortion and now I am pregnant again I don't want my boyfriend to pressure me again!
Q. I have discoverd that i am about 4 weeks pregnant. I am happy and scared at the same time. Last time i was pregnant i had a termination because my boyfriend dident want it. I felt under great pressure and i decided that a teremination was the best ...
A. 15 April 2009: I was in the exact same situation as you. When I was 16 I got pregnant && my boyfriend at the time convinced me to have an abortion. He said he couldn't be with me if I had the baby. I have regretted it ever since. It kills me inside. I am pregnant ... (read in full...)
First pregnancy anxieties.
Q. I'm 19 and last night I found out I was pregnant. I took a pregnancy test after having cramps and sore breasts pretty much constantly for around a fortnight. My periods have been slightly irregular for around the last four months so I'm not entirely ...
A. 15 April 2009: I'm 18 && 6 months pregnant. Are you in the US? because if you are you can most likely get medicaid and WIC, which will provide food for you I believe until the baby is 6 months old, or a year if you breastfeed. It will cover your child until ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 15 April 2009: my problem is not with all anonymous posters. Just the ones that say hateful or hurtful things && judge others constantly. It's like they're hiding who they really are so people can't lash out to them. I mean, if I have something to say I'll say it. ... (read in full...)
Curious 14 year old girl ....
Q. hi i'm 14 and have done basically everything sexual. i was just wondering what age people have done different things eg. oral, lost virginity, anal, fantasies etc....
A. 15 April 2009: sweetheart, eyeswideopen is just trying to help you. yes she tends to be a bit harsh but that's really what some people need. She hasn't really said anything that you should take offense to or be hurt by. What you are doing is very dangerous and ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy..all the symptoms!
Q. Hi, im 17 years old and i have all of the symptoms of pregnancy but when i had taken the home pregnancy test, it told me that i was not pregnant. Ive gotten everything from gaining weight to morning sickness and everything in between. i really d...
A. 14 April 2009: see your doctor. then you can get a blood test. My first pregnancy test was also negative, but here I am having a baby! If you're not pregnant then maybe you're very hormonal. Either way, see your doctor.... (read in full...)
13, pregnant from first time and it was a dare
Q. Hey i have just turend 13 in december and just found out i am pregnant since I am really young and only just started my period in november i had sex in march and only slept with one lad a dont know what to do but i dont want an abortion but in a...
A. 14 April 2009: there is a lot more to having a child than dressing them up && showing them off. it's hard work. I mean you're pregnant now && you don't want an abortion so don't let anyone talk you into it. have you considered adoption? you could even choose the ... (read in full...)
Curious 14 year old girl ....
Q. hi i'm 14 and have done basically everything sexual. i was just wondering what age people have done different things eg. oral, lost virginity, anal, fantasies etc....
A. 14 April 2009: I gave my first handjob && blow job at 12.
I had sex at 13.
I first received oral at 15
I did anal at 18.
I was a victim of sexual abuse && for most of my life sex was all I knew. I regret almost everything I've done, especially... (read in full...)
Happy Easter!
Q. I thought instead of posting a question on [troubled] relationship [issues], I thought I'd post something more upbeat ;-) So, I just wanted to post a short note to say "Happy Easter" this long weekend (Good Friday, Easter Monday/Bank Holi...
A. 12 April 2009: happy easter to you too, and everyone on here. I'm staying with my mom tonight and we're gonna color eggs like we did when I was younger. I wuv my mommmy =]... (read in full...)
Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 10 April 2009: one thing I also have to add on here: the worse thing of all is when people make negative && insulting comments but don't even try to help the asker out. Just answer the question! so what if you don't agree? This site is for advice! so give it!
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Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 10 April 2009: ok well let me try to get to everyone here.
SirenaBlusera, that's what I'm talking about! you gave your own opinion on something you don't necessarily agree with, but you actually answered the poor girl's question! why can't we all be a little ... (read in full...)
Cute vs Sexy
Q. I have a question. I know, I have a lot of questions, but I also have a lot of answers, so I think it balances out =] I've noticed that a lot of guys I know have, over the past few years, said that I am so hot and sexy. They say they want to hav...
A. 10 April 2009: thank you everyone. like I said in my earlier response, I am a t-shirt && jeans type of girl. I don't wear much skimpy clothes. I mean at the moment my breasts pop out of everything but It's cuz I am pregnant. My question is about before I got ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 9 April 2009: I was looking for one in particular but couldn't find it. however I have this link which made me think of the other one a while back. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/questions-i-need-answered-before-i-try-anal.html
this has some answers on it th... (read in full...)
Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 9 April 2009: so true armymedic! and doesn't it seem as if the rudest comments come from anonymous posters? they're always so quick to judge on this site but they either aren't members, or they hide behind the "post this answer anonymously" box. hmm.. funny isn't ... (read in full...)
Am I being that bad to my ex GF?
Q. I posted on here before and came back to get some more advice. I dumped my GF last year and we were on and off since then. I told her i would consider getting back with her if she lost weight she is a size 14-16 but good looking i must say, I prefer ...
A. 9 April 2009: you're just going to get the same responses as before.
yes. you are being a shallow prick. ... (read in full...)
Question on safe sex during pregnancy.
Q. Ok, I have a question for all! When you suspect you're a few weeks pregnant it's still safe to have sex, right? But even rough sex? The thing is..I'm waiting for my blood test results. I won't find out for a week or so. I haven't told my bo...
A. 9 April 2009: sex should be safe in a normal pregnancy throughout the whole thing. as far as rough sex goes, it should be ok in early pregnancy, just not so rough that you're hurting yourself. I'm 6 months pregnant && had all kinds of sex until 2 months ago. hope ... (read in full...)
Would we be ok to have sex with protection and me on the pill?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are both 15 years old and virgins, we have been best mates when little and actually got together 3 years ago next month. We've talked about sex, we have condoms, and we have only kissed and hugged alot, i have given him a hand...
A. 9 April 2009: I think you're a bit young, but if you feel ready then go on the pill. make sure you're on it for at least a week, take it the same time every day. and also use a condom. the chances of you getting pregnant are very slim this way. also, you can get ... (read in full...)
Too soon to get engaged?
Q. Is it too soon to get engaged after dating for less than a year.... like 6 or 7 months? I know that she is the one. I feel it with every fiber of my being, and she feels the same way. We have deep conversations about our future together. It woul...
A. 9 April 2009: no it's not. If you both feel like you belong together forever than go for it! true love is worth it.... (read in full...)
Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 9 April 2009: I'm not talking about "tough love" I'm talking about people making others feel like there is something wrong with them for trying new things. "tough love" is when you say "are you insane? don't do that! you'll just get hurt" I'm referring to ... (read in full...)
Cute vs Sexy
Q. I have a question. I know, I have a lot of questions, but I also have a lot of answers, so I think it balances out =] I've noticed that a lot of guys I know have, over the past few years, said that I am so hot and sexy. They say they want to hav...
A. 9 April 2009: thank you honeypie. I really don't want to have to change who I am.
but it still upsets me when thet act that way.
also I forgot to add, I get along with guys way better than girls[ girls tend to start drama] but eventually my "friends" end up... (read in full...)
Cute vs Sexy
Q. I have a question. I know, I have a lot of questions, but I also have a lot of answers, so I think it balances out =] I've noticed that a lot of guys I know have, over the past few years, said that I am so hot and sexy. They say they want to hav...
A. 9 April 2009: thank you for your advice. actually I never wear clothes that reveal any cleavage unless it's a formal dress or something. I'm normally the t-shirt && ripped up blue jeans type of girl =]
but as far as being friendly, I'll try to watch how I ac... (read in full...)
Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 9 April 2009: you guys are amazing. while I'm posting my responce to eyeswideopen, two more of you respond?? It's good to know that you're active on the site.
I know that some posters are pretty much asking for it, && in my post I really don't mean that all... (read in full...)
Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 9 April 2009: I agree with you, eyeswideopen, but don't you think that maybe we could convince them not to do things like that in a nicer way. little girls don't respond well to negative comments. idk, that situation is a bit different, like I said that's one of ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 9 April 2009: I glad you guys see what I'm saying. I myself sometimes get a bit upset on certain topics, like 13 year old girls having sex. but I try to educate them && inform them instead of judging them.
I know they're are a lot of good answers on here && ... (read in full...)
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