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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i ve been together with my guy for 8 months.everything was fine between us,till a a female friend came between us and he would not stop texting her.though my guy calls her as her sister i could not stand the sight of them sitting together chit chatting and laughing.i love my guy so so much but he said he doesn't have the same feelings i have for him but told me he likes me and my company for he has met a good person in life.my feelings were true for him, it did not bother me much cuz i know how deep in love i am with him.He was showing no interest in me when i was around him and would be happily talking to that girl.we started having fights,and it was so ugly that we split. after 3 months he came and spoke to me.he said he wants to be nice to me and doesn't want to fight with me.now even though we are together, i don feel the way it used to be earlier. i don't speak much to him now cuz i don't feel like talking to him now. he had hurt me so so much in those 3 months without talking to me.i used to talk to him day and night non stop. now he tells me that i don talk much to him. it really bothers me but i don't feel like talking to him like before. i really don't know why am i like this. is this because we are no longer close to each other? am damn confused. pls help me
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (9 March 2013):
 He didn't have strong feelings for you. You were just a good company, good person to him. The loving connection was never there because his mind was preoccupied with the other girl. I think he came back to you because he felt guilty about the way he treated you. To salve his conscience, he was trying to do the right thing. He also missed your loving kindness that of course his "sister friend" could not show. It's my belief that a relationship can not start when there is a third person getting in between. He wants the relationship to work not because he loves you, but because if it doesn't it relfects his failure to be a decent, considerate boyfriend. He had hurt you so much that your love died.
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