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I've been replying to problems for quite a while now and hope Ive helped make a difference in some way. Mostly I prefer answering questions relating to health and sex, as I feel these are the most important and I have a bit of background knowledge that I hope will be useful to others.
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My wife discusses our personal problems with friends. I can't face them now.
Q. Can you help? I've been married for three years and everything as been going pretty well, but recently i've found out my wife as been discussing our personal problems with her friends, some of which are married to friends of mine. Now i can barely f...
A. 13 May 2008: Women do talk to their friends about relationships in alot more detail than men. But don't worry, you're friends wives will also be swapping stories about their husbands and they are also in the same position as you and are probably worrying in the ... (read in full...)
I think he is head over heels in love with me, what about u?
Q. Iam dating this guy he really likes me,infact I think he is head over heels in love with me.Iam starting to think he is obsessed with me.At night when Iam sleeping he sleeps really close to me and rubs against me and rubs my back or couresses me in ...
A. 13 May 2008: Yeah he is definitly mad about you! If it seems a bit much, tell him so. Otherwise enjoy being with someone so devoted to you xxx... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and I think I'm pregnant
Q. Can anyone help me? Im 15 and I think im pregnant! my boyfriend is 18 and ive told him but he says I should do what I think is right but last month I was 2weeks late and when I came on my period it wasent even a propa period and ive not come on this ...
A. 13 May 2008: Its best you find out as soon as possible. Are you on the pill? a change in you're periods and mood swings are often a side effect. I see you're from the UK, you can buy tests from home bargains and pound shops in most places and there isnt an age ... (read in full...)
I like a boy...but how can I talk to him?
Q. there is this boy who i realy like we started talking in january and then met (are schools are right by each other) he said to my freind that he liked me and i seemed like a nice person.but we have barely spoken since and i dont know really what to ...
A. 10 May 2008: Why don't you ask him for his phone number?... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants to move on but how do I get her back?
Q. My girlfriend of 3 and a half years just recently broke up with me. We started dating right when she got out of highschool she is now 22 and i am 25. We were each others first love and now she says she wants to be alone. She says she doesnt really ...
A. 10 May 2008: It isnt neccessarily something you did wrong that made her break up with you. As you have said, you got together at a young age and havent experienced other relationships. Its probable that she feels you both need more life experience before ... (read in full...)
Are there side effects to contraceptive pills?
Q. Hi, my doctor prescribed me some contraceptive pills to ease my stomach pain and shorten periods. I was just wondering if there's any side-effects? I need a bit of reassurance because i'm rather hesitant to take them. Thanks!...
A. 10 May 2008: 60% of women have no side effects at all. However side effects include headaches, nausea, mood swings and tender breasts. There is also a higher chance of deep vein thrombosis, though this is extremly rare and more common in older women.
All pack... (read in full...)
Am I bi-sexual? Why was my girlfriend so understanding? Should I confront my friend?
Q. Recently whilst sleeping around my friends, after a night of drinking, I awoke to discover him fondling me. I didn't say anything and just pretended to be asleep. The fondling progressed into him giving me oral sex whilst rubbing himself up against ...
A. 10 May 2008: Firstly, the fact he did this to you whilst he thought you were asleep is slightly disturbing. It sounds as if he is in denial of what happened and is scared you'll bring this up. If you enjoyed this experience, it doesnt mean you're neccessar... (read in full...)
Please tell me these are all signs that he likes me.
Q. Hi guys, well i really need some advice. What are all the signs that he is flirting with me? I really want to know if he likes me. So i'll tell you what he is doing and you tell me if he likes me 1. he is always looking me in the eye when he is s...
A. 10 May 2008: Well it certainly sounds like he does like you, boys just dont like admitting it outright incase they get rejected.
If you like him, talk to him and get to know him
Good luck:)
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I'm 5 months pregnant and he's with another girl and he still comes round to sleep with me.
Q. I am so hurt. My ex boyfriend is with another girl even though he knows i'm 5 months pregnant from him. He tells me he loves this girl. He phones me all the time and tells me he will be there for the baby, but he doesn't want to be with me. I feel...
A. 10 May 2008: You deserve so much better than this. He is irresponsible and selfish. It may be difficult, but you must stop allowing him to come back to you when he wants. Giving in and sleeping with him is giving him permission walk all over you. You're primary... (read in full...)
Is it possible I could be pregnant even though I've had my periods?
Q. I've had my periods over the past few months although they've been a bit irregular, however recently i'm not sure if i may be pregnant as it feels as though i am, and i'm sure i can feel it move. Could i be pregnant although i've had my peri...
A. 10 May 2008: Its pretty rare, but on occasion, women still have periods throughout pregnancy.If you've been pregnant before, you'll know what to expect, symptons-wise. Do a test anyway, to make sure.
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When will I know she's ready to have sex?
Q. Hi everyone. I've been dating this girl for nearly a year, we get along very well, finish each other's sentences and all that, lovey-dovey kind of couple.I swore I would not be like that in another relationship, but.. here we are, lol. Anyway here's ...
A. 10 May 2008: Shes lucky shes found someone so considerate! You say sex with your first girlfriend 'just happened', well isnt it possible that it could 'just happen' again?
If location is a problem, you could always suggest a weekend away together? It'd be roma... (read in full...)
Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..
Q. Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...
A. 9 May 2008: You havent really asked a question there, just told us a long slightly strange story.
Like most aunts here, Im reluctant to believe this is a genuine post, but if it is you're putting yourself in danger. You can catch STDs amongst other things from... (read in full...)
What do guys in their 25's think, and how do they think?
Q. I need some help from the guys, girls can help too. My question is what do guys in their 25s think, and how do they think? I am very close to this guy, we talk over msn almost everynight, and everybody knows that we are very close friends. To the ...
A. 9 May 2008: What one 25 year old male thinks isnt what all men the same age think. Everyones different regardless of age.
You obviously have a great friendship with this guy. The age difference is a bit bigger than normal, which he may be uncomfortable abou... (read in full...)
My lecturer's been with his wife for 15 yrs, I really like him, so I'm planning to act!
Q. The lecturer I fancy knows my name and i think he likes me. He's married but he's been with her for over 15 years (even though hes only 35, i'm 20) and has indicated to me he's a bit bored. He's so clever and interesting and i'm dying to spend time...
A. 9 May 2008: This is a tough one. He very well may like you, but the bottom line is hes married and even if he wanted to he probably wont do anything about it.
Do you really want to play second best to someone else? I'm sure you deserve more.
It could cause al... (read in full...)
I think he does love me but he's never got time for me. Please help.
Q. We're working abroad and we are both married, he has a girlfriend but i couldn't help falling in love with him, he said he love me too. I really love him so much (well i'm just a human). My problem is i feel bored with our relationship because we d...
A. 9 May 2008: He is playing games with you. You say you're both married and he also has a girlfriend? This clearly shows he is having his cake and eating it, knowing you and this other girlfriend wont say anything. If he had any type of respect for women, he ... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend who I still love moved away, and I miss him so much!!
Q. Okay there is this guy at my school who i really like but he moved away. We went out once but not for very long. He is sooo shy. All his friends said he liked me still, but i don't know if it's true. I really miss him. What should i do? I real...
A. 9 May 2008: If he went out with you for a while he must have liked you!
Its a shame you've lost touch, I bet he wants to talk to you too.
If you havent already got an email address or phone number, ask one of his friends (albeit a nice one) if they could gi... (read in full...)
He found out about my hairy armpits and now he's flirting with my friend
Q. I really like this guy but he found out i had hairy armpits and is really freaked out now he is flirting with my friend wat should i do...
A. 9 May 2008: Well he must be a very shallow person to do that.
Show him you dont care and ignore him.
Like the other aunts suggested, you could shave/wax/ use a cream and wear a vest.Its also alot more hygienic.
But to be honest, is he someone who deserves... (read in full...)
I really just want to let myself go with him tomorrow night, but what can I do to stop the nerves?
Q. Bit of a strange question. Recently, my best friend, who is a guy admitted he was in love with me. We have always had an amazingly intimate and close friendship and I think deep down I have always been in love with him too. He left me a letter...
A. 9 May 2008: Maybe you're nervous because you're truly in love with him and you want it to be perfect.
Are you sure you're ready to make the next move? If you are then let it happen naturally, dont be nervous, he loves you and will probably be feeling the same... (read in full...)
I wouldn't leave this teacher alone and now I want to apologize! How do I go about this?
Q. I am leaving school next week and before I go I want to put all my wrongs right and leave on go terms. Sounds good? Yet its going to be soo hard, there is a teacher who I used to get on with yet I had a thing for her n always have had! But she sta...
A. 9 May 2008: Its nice you want to leave things are good terms. It would also make her feel alot better knowing you're sorry.
Meeting her in person could be difficult and awkward for you both so a short letter or a card would be a good idea.
I'm sure she'll b... (read in full...)
I'm meeting my ex for first time since we broke up 3 months ago. Any opinions or advice would be welcomed.
Q. So im meeting my ex of 3 years at the weekend for a bite to eat. I havent seen her for nearly 3 months, and only communicated a couple of times through text. It was kind of a mutual agreement to meet up for as she puts it "a casual catch up". ...
A. 9 May 2008: She may just miss you and want to see how you are doing.
What exactly are you hoping to gain from this meeting? A friend or a girlfriend?
If you still have feelings, go along and see how the mood is between you. Even if it becomes clear she just... (read in full...)
I want to be pregnant but it's not happening
Q. I want to be pregnant. Im 19 i had an abortion last year and had the depo provera straight after which lasts for 3 months. I feel i made the choice for all the wrong reasons and now really want a baby with my fiance. Problem is he doesn't know! i ...
A. 9 May 2008: You must let him know that you are ready for a baby. If you suddenly got pregnant without his knowledge then he could grow to resent you for this and you could be left alone.
85% of couples get pregnant within a year, so the chances are you are in t... (read in full...)
Will a brace put the men off me?
Q. I want to meet and date other people again after getting out of a relationship. But i maybe getting a brace this year, as i want to straighten my teeth. will it put men off me? when they see it? ...
A. 9 May 2008: I would honestly say that I had more interest in me when I had braces, not neccessarily because of them but because I didnt let them bother me.
Any men worth knowing wouldnt be bothered at all, thats if they noticed at all (men arent the most obse... (read in full...)
How long does it take before the chlamydia takes effect and makes her infertile?
Q. Ok, I have a friend who might have chlamydia. She doesn't want to tell her mom so she can get treated. How long does it take before the chlamydia takes effect and makes her infertile?...
A. 9 May 2008: Unfortunately Chlamydia doesnt always have symptoms, hence it being the most common STD as people don't get treatment as they arent aware they have it.
It taks quite a while for it to damage fertility- but she should still get it sorted as soon as p... (read in full...)
Do ultra thin condoms make you more sensitive? I'm a virgin.
Q. im a virgin that is about to start having sex. the condoms i have are ultra thin. i know that im not going to last very long on our first time but will these condoms make me cum even quicker than i would with a regular condom?...
A. 9 May 2008: Firstly, well done for planning on using a condom.
Secondly, yes thin style condoms do make you (and you're partner) more sensitive to sensations, possibly making you 'finish' quicker.
Explore the different options available, there are plenty o... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'm turning into a horrible person
Q. i'm scared i'm turning into a horrible person, i keep being mean without the intension, like being nasty without me thinking about it. please help me stop! should i appologise? recently i have become a model for absolute and i'm scared it will go ...
A. 9 May 2008: Starting a new job, especially one like yours is going to cause alot of stress.
The main source of your anger and frustration probably stems from this. Looking at you're age, hormones could also be at play.
If you feel these feelings arising,... (read in full...)
My husband fell out with me on our wedding night, it was terrible! Will he react this way again?
Q. My husband fell out with me on our wedding night, it was terrible, I spent the whole night crying and he said he didn't love me and it was over.. well you might ask how did it all start? Well after many stressful months of planning the day arrived ...
A. 9 May 2008: I'd see what happens, if it was 7 months ago and your husband had quite a bit to drink then chances are he wont remember him. Besides dropping you're nephews friend into conversation could stir up trouble.
Try not to drink too much and if poss... (read in full...)
I'm too embarrassed to tell my mum about my period
Q. i'm 12 years old and just started my period about a week ago. i haven't told my mum because it's to embarassing. i have tried a few times but can't bring myself to say it. also i have two older sisters who would make fun of me about it. what should ...
A. 9 May 2008: I also have two older sisters so I know how you feel completely! Starting your period happens to every girl at some point so its really nothing to be embarassed about.
Tell her when you're sisters arent there, she'll probably be expecting you to t... (read in full...)
Why don't I have an orgasm when I have sex with my partner?
Q. hi, i just want to ask why i did'nt feel orgasm every time i had sex with my partner? my partner is good in sex i know it. he always ask me if im finished i said not yet,if i feel that he can no longer to wait for my orgasm, im just pretending and ...
A. 9 May 2008: Its completely normal, most women find it easier to orgasm through clitoral stimulation not through sexual intercourse. Concentrate on this aspect and tell him what you like. Im sure he'll be understanding.
Good luck
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I have a BF, yet this other boy tries to hold my hand and kiss me in front of everyone! What to do?
Q. I have a boyfriend and i love him to peices, i really do! But a boy I know has just asked me to have an affair, and i dont know if i should say yes. I really like him and before i went out with my new boyfriend i was always waiting for the boy to a...
A. 7 May 2008: Firstly, don't have an affair. Not just because you're boyfriend will get hurt but because this other lad dosent deserve to be playing second best.
It is a difficult situation and you must think hard about whether your present relationship is wort... (read in full...)
Everywhere I go I try to impress girls but for some reason it just doesn’t work! Help?
Q. Hey guys!!! I would really appreciate it if you could give me a few tips!! I am 17 years old and still single, I have been single for a year now after I broke up with my long term girlfriend of 2 years. I was glad to get out of that relationship...
A. 7 May 2008: Why are you ashamed to be a virgin? You'd be much more ashamed if you'd slept with someone you didnt like, besides you're still young.
If you really want to meet girls, join different clubs take up hobbies where you'll meet new people.
Ask them out... (read in full...)
Romantic music for a wedding - ideas please.
Q. Hi, This is probably an unusual one! But I am looking for help in regards to picking out music for an upcoming wedding ceremony! I dont want anything too lonely as it will be lonely enough. But ideas of more romantic tone. The main one I am having ...
A. 7 May 2008: Truly madly deeply by Savage Garden! x... (read in full...)
Am I too tight? Do I have a problem?
Q. This is incredibly embarrassing, so this question is for girls and doctors only! The problem is that I'm a bit 'tight' if you know what I mean... I find it incredibly painful just to insert a tampon, it has put me off masturbating, an...
A. 7 May 2008: I've heard a lot of people say the same. Try to use the mini tampons first, it gets easier with practice and it also helps to be as relaxed as possible. If there is still problem after a while, visit your doctor, they'll have seen the same problem ... (read in full...)
Gaining this much has me scared to eat, because I look so fat.
Q. Okay, well this is kind of a personal question, but i think i'm about to start my period (this isn't my first time) but i have never gained weight like this before, and like i used to have an eating disorder, and it looks like i gained like 10lbs. ...
A. 7 May 2008: People with eating disorders often have an unrealistic perception of their bodies.This just means you think you look bigger than you do.Its very common. If you've gained ten pounds then that is probably a good thing if you looked thin before.
R... (read in full...)
Can anyone suggest any cool 'tag lines' I can call my own at school?
Q. Hey, well i am 18 years old..and i am in 12th grade studying in a school in the United Kingdom. I dont have a major problem, but there is something i want your help for. All my friends have their own line or something that they say all the time, so t...
A. 7 May 2008: haha this post is crazy. There is probably something you say all the time that you havent even noticed. I tend to say 'Thats lush' alot for some reason. just pay more attention to yourself, you probably say something already.
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Is there a way that I can ask her out, without shocking her?
Q. Hi, i want to know, is it ok to go out with a girl who's got usher's syndrome? We've been friends for a while, but we did think of going out with each other, but i wasn't ready at that time. So is there a way that i can ask her out without shoc...
A. 7 May 2008: Ushers syndrome or no Ushers syndrome, shes still a girl you like, who seems to feel the same way about you :)
Just let her know that you're ready to be with her and that you feel as strongly as ever about her.
I'm sure she'll be pleased to know ... (read in full...)
I don't have the guts to ask him if he's in this relationship just for sex. Can you help please?
Q. Just started seeing this new lad.. Seems amazing..i don't know what to do though, as i have been messed around so much in the past. I don't want to be hurt again. I don't have the guts to face up to him, if he is just in it for the sex, or if he w...
A. 7 May 2008: You could ask him straight out but when put on the spot he might just say what he thinks you want him to say.
You could always lessen how often you have sex a while maybe completely and see if he is still as commited and as interested as he was prio... (read in full...)
How can be both relax more so we can enjoy sex together?
Q. Right erm ok me and my gf have been together for 7 months and known each other for about 14 years ish. I stop over at hers most of the time and because her parents know me so well they don't mind that we sleep together. They trust us both and her ...
A. 7 May 2008: Firstly well done for not rushing into things, its also good that you're first time will be with someone you've known for along time.
Now for the problem, I'll be honest sex for the first time is usually a disappointment, ask anyone and they'll say ... (read in full...)
My best friend is gay, but he wants to start a family with me, I'm confused. Please help!
Q. So my aboslute best friend is gay. I'm a senior and he is a junior we met two years ago but we are incredibly close. He has been gay for quite some time (since middle school) and has had many many male partners and was against dating girls because ...
A. 7 May 2008: If he is attracted to men and you, then he's probably bisexual even if he finds this difficult to admit.
Try not to talk about the surrogacy topic for a while as it isnt relevent to your life at the moment and things change.
Ask him straight... (read in full...)
What would you think if you found out a friend had punched his 3 yr old?
Q. If you had a mate who always bad-mouthed his ex girlfriend who has his teenage son, and always says it's because of her that he doesn't see his son. But then you were shown a neswpaper report which says, your mate years ago punched his child at 3 ye...
A. 7 May 2008: I'd usually say you should be able to forgive people but in this case I dont.
People who act like this rarely change. He has commited one of the most disgusting crimes that a person possibly can.
I'd break off contact with him slowly, not even men... (read in full...)
Is an 8 year age gap a major one?
Q. I am dating a boy 8 years older than me. Will this be called age difference? I mean relationship with major age difference or this is normal as normal as when one is just 4 years older??? Any comments??...
A. 7 May 2008: It just depends on the ages of the people involved. At you're age I wouldn't consider it a major difference and you're both young enough to share the same interests etc
It may cause a little inconvience at times and some compromising, but don't all ... (read in full...)
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