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Is it possible to have feelings for this guy knowing he is in a relationship ?

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Question - (11 December 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 December 2012)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Hello all I was just thinking of this guy that I have been knowing for two months already and we talk to one another from time to time but he is in a relationship.

I like him but I am not a home wrecker.

Could I be attracted to this guy knowing he is in a relationship he even tries to flirt on the low.I'm afraid that the flirting might turn into something else and I have been single for nine years to if you kno what I mean I don't want to do this .

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom +, writes (11 December 2012):

AuntyEm agony auntFour words:

Stay Away

Self Control

That should keep you out of trouble.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (11 December 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntOf course it's possible to be attracted to someone in a relationship. It's also possible to be attracted to someone when you are in a relationship with someone else.

We are higher level mammals however, and therefore we are in total control of what we choose to do with these feelings.

IF you are afraid of being weak around this man, then stop the flirting.

I can tell you that I am a very taken woman AND an outrageous flirt. I make no bones about either.... so men I flirt with know that it's just fun and games...

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