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writes:I've always been terrible at being able to tell if a guy is into me or is just being a good friend, especially when most of my friends are guys I have a coworker that I have become good friends with outside of work. He's five years older than me and we share a lot in common. We started out as lunch buddies when I first started working there. Then we began to hang out after work where we would go to the movies and out to dinner. We exchanged phone numbers and would be on the phone for hours Now, things have gone a bit further. He teases me a lot and messes with my hair. He high fives me all the time and has even given me a nickname which he likes to say everytime he sees me pass by his cubicle. His teasing has become more about sex and sounds like he is flirting. He likes to make me laugh if he sees me upset. He also teases me and says jokingly that I want him but that I can't have him even though I say that I don't want him teasingly when in reality I do like him but haven't said anything. We have absolutely invaded each other's personal space and have talked a ot about our personal lives. I was also seeing someone recently and my coworker knew about it and would always bring him up every time we talked. I told him that I thought he was jealous but he never said anything. When I told my friend that I was single again, that's when he started flirting with me a lot and teasing me. I know that he hates it when guys come up to me to flirt with me and it has happened a lot when he and I are together I'm not good at knowing if he likes me or not. We are still hanging out after work and are always making plans to see each other. I won't admit that I like him until he tells me that he likes me first. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2010): oh for gods sake girlfriend.......get in there ! he has always adored you,doesnt think your last fella was good enough for you, questions weither he is himself, and is petrified of rejection !put him out of his misery x
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reader, xanthic +, writes (15 September 2010):
 Yes, he likes you. Why not drop a few hints yourself?
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reader, BassiveMalls +, writes (15 September 2010):
 Yeah, he likes you but he doesn't want to say anything because if you shoot him down it'll be weird. Sometimes you gotta take matters into your own hands if you want something. Don't think its always up to the guy to ask you out. We already know he'll say yes so just go for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010): He likes you or he's gay. If you're really hot then he really likes you and just can't believe how smokin hit you are and that you could like him. He also probably thinks he is being a gentleman. If I were him I'd get the hint from below, but would prefer more direct so I don't have to wonder. I had a girl from work tell me that she'd like to fool around. For example, I wasn't quite sure what she meant by that until she said how about I come over Saturday and I'll buy a pizza and we'll fuck all day long. Then I was crystal clear on what she wanted. (good times)
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (15 September 2010):
 I would say this guy likes you more than being just a friend. He is flirting on a big scale hoping you will get the hint.
Start talking to him about girlfriends ask if he has one if he says no ask him would he like one and look at him as you say it. If he doesnt get that hint then he is blind.
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