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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear CupidMy bf of 3 years has gone to Europe for a seminar. He is there for past 1 week, will be back next week end. He went along with his coworker/boss with whom he has a crush on. She is married with kids.My bf is kind of lean towards selfish person, he is verbally and emotionally abusive when he thinks i bug him a lot. These days i dont really do anything to annoy him, so our relationship is on ok level.He called me prev sat through skype, we had a good chat, said he was going out with friends. After that he hasnt contacted me, he is not online in facebook or whatsapp or viber, hasnt logged into skype as well. I know he is well, got info from his office friends here.I sent him couple of text, he hasnt responded back, no replies for my mail. I am worried that he might be cheating on me, he used to say all the time when he gets a chance he will be sleeping with his boss, she is so sexy blah blahs. I thought he was messing around with me, making me jealous, im scared nw. BTW he talked to his office friends, he is only ignoring me. What should i do now.Please help me, i couldn't sleep, not able to concentrate on anything. Images of him sleeping with her is keep on popping up on my head. Please help me before i go mad with these kind of images.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2014): This is a terrible relationship! Just listen to yourself, you are a wreck. He is a horrible person. Please find the strength to end this now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2014): Sweetheart, there's nothing you can do to stop him from cheating.The real question is why do you think you deserve someone who treats you this way? Regardless of whether he's cheated or not, his going AWOL like this isn't very nice to you. And saying he'll sleep with his boss at the first opportunity; well isn't he a gentleman?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2014): This does not sound like a nice man or a healthy relationship. I know it's been three years so the idea of being without him must hurt but I think you'd be better off breaking up with him when he gets back. Even if he's not cheating, he's still an awful person.
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