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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (25 May 2011):
 question her, for all you know she may have spotted a problem that you are unaware of or she was just being a bitch. find out now with a simple phone call.
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reader, SamandaRose11  +, writes (25 May 2011):
SamandaRose11 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes I told her that we are trying to conceive. I even brought in my tubal reversal report for her to put in her files. I'll give her a chance to see that I am heart fully trying to have a family and maybe she will change her tone. Thanks everyone for all your answers.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (25 May 2011):
 Does she know you're trying to conceive? Are you in a high risk catergory or something? Just talk to your doctor. I'm sure she didn't mean to hurt your feelings.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (24 May 2011):
 She probably assumed you were being tested because you didn't want to be pregnant. I'm sure she didn't mean to sound mean. You could always call and ask why she said that.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (24 May 2011):
 "Doctor, why would you say that it's good if the test is negative? You do understand we are trying to conceive? This is a disappointing result for us." Give her a chance to explain herself. We'd just be guessing.
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reader, gigolojone  +, writes (24 May 2011):
 I would like to think it was all a misunderstanding.
Does your ob/gyn know you are trying to conceive?
If know,then that could be the reason why.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 May 2011):
 The only person that can answer your questions here is your ob/gyn. Talk to her about it and see what she says. There is obviously some reason why a negative test result was good at this time, but these are the questions that you need to be able to ask her so that you know exactly what is going on. So learn more by talking to her and ask her anything that you are in doubt of. Good luck and all the best for the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2011): She probably just made a mistake since there are a vast majority of people that do not want to be pregnant. Is there a chance she could have forgotton that you were trying for a baby? Why dont you ask her? Also since you are trying to concieve one of the best things you can do is try to put it out of your head. I know many people that give up on trying and forget about it then next month bam theyre pregnant. Best wishes to you!
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