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writes:So me and my boyfriend have been together for four year, five in December... And I just idk our first year was so horrible, when I think back Idk why or how I kept up with his bs. I didn't get to have fun in high school because he was controlling, bit I say it some of my fault because I had the choice to listen to him or tell him no I'm going.. it got to the point he would tell me not to wheat certain clothing. Finally in our second year I put my foot down and told him I'm goingto wear what I want... Now its not so bad but he makes comment about shirts I wear for example I use tank top and the chest part bothers him (i don't even have big boobs!) Heel pull them up, if I talk to any guy, any new guy he gets mad and says I flirt... I love this guy like crazy but he's drivingme crazy. I have this resentment towards him because of the past I have so much regret cause I will never get my high school years back.. I've broke up but he hangs on.. I talk to him and tell him that I just don't trust him and we have a lot going on... I've tried talking to him in the calmest way... I don't even know right now... Like I know its not normal, but is it normal the way I feel.. I have lost a lot of my friends because I isolated myself so I would have to hear him at the end of the day. I have no one to talk to so that's why I'm here in need of some friendly help..
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't think I'm toying with him, its hard to let go of someone you love, thats kinda harsh I didn't expect that, but thanks I deserve it lol
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reader, DeadEyeDick +, writes (8 July 2012):
 Well i'll tell you right now, the resentment part is the deal breaker, if you cannot figure out a way to get over the resentment, and he cannot figure out a way to act like a grown up, then your just extending the already finished relationship your in, it sounds bad all the way around, you kind of sound like your toying with him, and playing games with him, if you really wanted to be done with him, you tell him your done, then DO NOT CONTACT HIM FOR ANY REASON!! anything other then that, is just a game, and your both playing it. that simple.
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