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writes:hi im 17 i have a 12 month old daughter and im 5 months pregnant im engaged to a wonderful man but im still in love with my childhood sweetheart of 2 years we split up because i moved but we still keep in touch and i love still love him. i also love my fiance of 2 years. im lost in love between the both of them please help me make the right decision.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2008): well i think you shoudl just really stay with your fiance you dont have a child with your child hood sweetheart you allready have a family you just have to let go of those feeling and move on. if your childhood has no kids and is single hes in a way completely different world than you. your a mother and soon to be wife just get over it. in the long run it would be better if u stay with your fiance your childhood sweetheart might turn out to be the guy u didnt think he was and doesnt treat u the way ur fiance did and it might be just to late to realize that!
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reader, CONFUSED TEEN +, writes (9 March 2007):
CONFUSED TEEN is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTHANK YOU SO MUCH NOW I KNOW WHAT CHOICE IS BEST FOR ME.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (9 March 2007):
 If I were you I'd stay in the relationship you're in. You have a responsibilities just now as a mother and your fiancee. At least give it a try, you said you loved him so put this other boy out of your head. If you don't you're going to end up totally screwed up and you will have 2 kids who're going to be screwed up too!
That's IF your fiance doesn't file for custody of HIS child (if it is in fact his.) Save yourself the hurt and hassle and try and make this relationship work!
Eve
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reader, Bella55  +, writes (9 March 2007):
We all have childhood sweethearts. They remind us about our past and how things used to be. But thats where they should stay. Do the right thing not just for yourself but for your kids. Remember you only live once, and life is short. If you love your fiance, and his the father of your children then dont let go of this opportunity to raise your children with both their parents in a solid foundation. You have to be able to distinguish between real love and a strong crush. But dont get them mixed up, listen to your heart and do the right thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2007): Your childhood sweetheart is from the past and belongs there! People change and he mightn't be the same person he was when you knew him! You have to focus all your attention on your health and that of your daughter and unborn child!!! Everyone thinks of their childhood sweetheart at some stage in their life but thats all is - memorys. Best of luck and hope all goes well for you :)
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (9 March 2007):
 Im sure you know in your head what the right decision is but in your heart you are totally confused. You are in a relationship with a man you love and have a daughter and another one on the way. You need to settle down and give this relationship all of your attention. You have to put your childhood sweetheart out of your head and look forward to the future with your family. We all dream of what we used to have with childhood sweethearts but that is all it is dreams. You have a responsibility to your daughter to provide her with a safe loving home. You are very young to have such problems on your shoulders. You need to make a decision to cut ties with your childhood s/h and get him out of your life for good. Once you do this things will be alot better for you. Grass is not always greener on the other side.
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