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writes:I'm 15 and i don't have any experience with guys, except friendships. since i'm quiet, i don't really talk to people except when i have to. I also feel worthless and overweight. However, my family and friends say that i'm mature, responsible, respectful, trustworthy, intelligent, athletic, and caring. If i had a boyfriend, i would never cheat on him and let him know he's loved. i do like a guy who's 17, and he's nice to me. How can i get to know him better?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008): find out his interests and what he likes to do...guys love a girl that is interested in knowing what their hobbies are or their favorite color....be flirty and friendly and not shy try coming out of your shell when your around that guy...and if you know his friends start talking to them to he may be the guy that listens to his friends opinion and you want to make a good impression on the to. But always remember you have to be YOURSELF because in the end the truth will come out and he wont like you at all.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (9 March 2007):
 Continue being friends with him and ask him casually if he fancies going to the squash, badminton (or whatever you like to do sports wise) together? Take it slowly and just get to know him better. Doing sporting activities together will help you lose weight too without really trying! :o)
Eve
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reader, Bella55  +, writes (9 March 2007):
Well you say have experiences with friendships. Thats all you need to start a relationship. Treat him as a friend and see how it goes. Show him those good qualities and forget about the bad qualities you feel. The secret to attracting people is being yourself and being natural. If he is meant to be your first boyfriend it will happen naturally and through friendship. Goodluck!!
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (9 March 2007):
 You sound like a great person. Getting to know guys at your age is so hard to do. And some guys just dont seem interested. You need a little more confidence so try talking to a boy that you dont fancy and try and strike up a friendship.You are not worthless and so what if your overweight. Yes there alot of boys out there who have problems dating people who are overweight but there are also just as many who see the person for who they really are. Maybe try talking to this guy about sport or something he likes. Maybe you could think of something you know he could give you advice on. Judge his body language when he talks to you and take it from there.
Good luck
Aunty t
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