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writes:Ok so I just recently got back with my ex boyfriend of 1 1/2 months. He races motocross and is in the pro class. He was always gone every weekend to other states so we never got to see one another. [We broke up partly because of this]. Motocross season is over so we both decided to give it another try. Its really hard for him to open up to me because he has been hurt so many times. We are taking things s.l.o.w this time cuz we both want this to last. I got back with him 2 weeks ago and this has been the happiest I have ever been with him. He told me things would be different this time and they are. He used to not be able to see me, now he sees me alot more. He makes time for me everyday and never fails to bring a smile to my face every single morning with some of the sweetest things I have ever heard. I really want to be with him forever so how do I make sure this happens? What do I do to show him that I'm meant for him. He always tells me how much he loves me and that I'm soo beautiful and perfect and that he never wants to lose me but he never will, im the one whos scared to lose him. =[ i am in love with him so what should I do to get him to open up to me? Trust takes alot of time but I waited for him for 4 months and it shouldn't take anything more to prove to him that I love him. please help me. i dont want to lose his love i am so happy =]xoxox 3
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (11 October 2009):
Well it's not just about him opening up.
It's about you reassuring him that when he buggers off on his bike again for 6 months you aren't going to dump him.
If you want to be with him forever then you have to accept he's going to go away and spend zero time with you for a large part of the year.
You need to accept and not complain about it. Motorcross is his thing so you can't make him feel bad for doing it.
Get a thing of your own so he knows that when the new season starts you've got a plan so you won't miss him / go off with some other bloke.
Good Luck!! xx
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