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I want to be a porn star does anyone have any advice regarding this matter?

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Question - (19 November 2010) 12 Answers - (Newest, 22 November 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello,

I am a 17 year old make and I would like to be a male porn star.

Does anyone have any advice regarding this matter?

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (22 November 2010):

Tisha-1 agony auntMy advice is to have a very good back-up plan for your future.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (22 November 2010):

chigirl agony auntYou're not cut out to be a porn star, you're just a horny teenage boy!

Stop thinking with your little head and start thinking with your brains. If you want a hot girlfriend get an education, find a good job, be a nice person, and then you will be able to get a gorgeous woman to have sex with as much as you like as long as you respect her.

If all you want is sex you wont get far in life, and certainly you wont make it to porn. And there are tons of porn with no so hot chicks in it, and if you're gonna be a porn star you can't afford to be picky, but need to take all the crappy jobs you can get. You do not get to choose whom to have sex with, what you will be doing etc. And if you think porn sex is great and wonderful you have been tricked by poor acting skills. Having sex in front of lots of camera MEN and guys watching what you do and a woman you might not even be that attracted to.. good luck on enjoying it.

It really sounds like you don't want to be a porn star, you just want to have sex. The porn industry is not for you. Try the escort-business instead. Much better options, pays better, you can choose your own clients. On the downside you need to be attractive, good at what you do, have social skills and keep yourself tidy.

I suggest you grow up a bit first before you make any such decision. If all you want is sex get yourself a girlfriend, not a career as a porn star or escort. Just get some life experience and sexual experience first and foremost.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2010):

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I just want to have sex with all the hot girls.

And I don't mind doing the really hardcore stuff aslong as its stright.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2010):

If you really just want to have sex with a lot of hot chicks then don't try to make it happen by being a pornstar. Get yourself some money and in good shape and you will have just as much choice of women without all the problems of working in porn. It's not a very fun glamorous industry behind the scenes.

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A male reader, JoshB667 Australia +, writes (20 November 2010):

First of all, I am assuming you are built/hung like a horse otherwise forget it. Having a monster penis seems to be a pre-requisite for a male porn star.

If so, assuming you are serious, stop and ask yourself what your life long goals are. Do you want to have a family (kids), settle down one day... being a (even an ex) porn star may be a problem for many women on the day you decide to settle down. And think seriously about the kind of girl who would be okay with settling down with an 'active' porn star, she would have to be either another porn star or a major sl*t.

If the above is okay with you, go for it lol :)

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A female reader, smiliek Australia +, writes (20 November 2010):

smiliek agony auntYeah. My advice would be dont do it. But whatever floats your boat. Gross.

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A male reader, baddogbj China +, writes (20 November 2010):

baddogbj agony auntOK, well, you are going to have to wait a few years anyway because although porn producers love 18 year old girls they like men to look like men.

Presumably you are already confident that you have a substantially above average endowment?

You are going to have to practice quite a bit. Practice having vigorous sex without cuming for extended periods and then being able to cum on command when some overweight bloke with a beard tells you to. One way to practice this would be to invite your local scout master in to watch you and your girlfriend having sex and then only cum when he tells you to.

Once you have mastered that then you'll need to invite a lot more people around to watch. You'll need to feel comfortable having sex with maybe a dozen fully dressed people watching.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2010):

I suggest you be sure you're 100% certain that his is exactly what you want to do. I say this because I'd be concerned about whether or not it could hurt you in the future, say you want to get a different job. I'm pretty sure that's not the type of thing a handful of employers would appreciate. Especially if you want to get into public services or something along those lines. As for actually getting into the business, I don't really know how exactly that happens. I just wanted to caution you to be completely sure of your decision.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2010):

I agree with chigirl a little bit but why a porn star? Do you just want all sex and you really don't care about the rest of your future? What happens if a girl gets pregnet with your baby are you going to let your kid see that his/her daddy at one point was a person who would love to show off anything on his body. Yea you could be hott now but wait until you get older you might lose your image and your career.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (20 November 2010):

chigirl agony auntStart off in amateur videos?

My best advice to you though would be to get legal first (18-20 years of age), finish school and start on some education, just in case the porn doesn't pay off. I really have no idea if there's any good money in that business, especially for men, as the mean are rarely the ones focused on and often the ones just making the movies, not featuring in them.

You could always study film making and then move on to working on porn movies sett, probably get your leg into the business one way or the other, and once you network and get in contact with the right people you might start to build yourself up.

But, no one will hire a little kiddo, you need to wait at least one more year until you are legal. But still, male porn starts can feature on movies no matter if they are old and had a beer gut as far as Ive seen. So no worries about having to get there as fast as possible. I think studying film making might actually be your best shot. Lots of aspiring actors end up in porn too for that matter, so you could try studying acting too.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (20 November 2010):

dirtball agony auntGay porn is the way most guys get in. It also pays better. There's a reason you always see the same guys in all the movies.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2010):

Well i have no authority over your choices obviously but i would say that may not be the best choice fro your life. Say one day in the future you have children and then later in their lives they search you on Google. Say one of your "works" pops up Is that what you want your child to see of you? I cant tell you no do not do this but what I can say is if you ever want children and a family then it is not a very good idea to become a porn star

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