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*ovemeso64
writes:My best friend isn’t gay but I am. He was sending me mixed messages.He send me a text. We hadn’t hung out in like 6 months. I always liked him and came over to spend the night and I was climbing up my bunk bed and slipped. He caught me. I would’ve busted my head and in the rush of the moment I kissed him and he ruffled his hair, and said be my boyfriend already. Soo it’s been a month and he came over and I was in the bathroom and I was in my underwear and he came in and he touched my thigh. We started to make out and cuddled through the night and I woke and he was gone.Now he won’t answer my calls nor text and I’m worried.He's all I have. So what do I do? Sorry this was soo long
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reader, lovemeso64 +, writes (4 May 2013):
lovemeso64 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks he had recently explained he had wrongly questioned his sexuality and every thing is cool
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2013): Can't believe how harsh the other answer is! I do not agree that is what you have done you haven't bullied him dont worry he might be confused with his sexuality and he just needs time to think, give him that time to think and if he comes to terms with possibly being bi/gay because if he is sending you signals he isn't 100% gay. Try and find him, if you've been best friends for long is there somewhere he went to think? hope i helped :)
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reader, lovemeso64 +, writes (26 April 2013):
lovemeso64 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe said be my boyfriend already sorry to be unclear he left his parents are still looking forhim im worried noone can find him
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reader, lovemeso64 +, writes (26 April 2013):
lovemeso64 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno he said be my boyfriend allready sorry i wasnt clear
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (26 April 2013):
 You like him as more than a friend and he got caught up in the moment and now in the light of day he realizes he can't be more than friends with you and he does not know how to tell you.
it's easier for him to just not take your calls or texts then tell you that he does not want to be physical with you because although he's told you before you did not respect him or his wishes and hammered at him to "be by boyfriend already"
so he cuddled you and made out with you but he clearly did not feel right or good about it. and you kind of bullied him into it... now he is not comfortable.
you may have destroyed your friendship with him.
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