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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am a married lady aged 35 with 1 kid. We are of Indian origin living in one of the gulf countries to earn our bread. I am a house wife and my husband works in shifts. To support our rent we had a paying gust who was 50 years old. I liked him so much that we started talking about sex and gradualy came closer and closer in a course of time. He used to do all foreplays for me and finaly used to do oral sex for me. Many a times I have had orgasam even mutiple orgasam through oral play with his tongue and clitoral stimulation. Also he stimulated my G spot with his finger which was my first experience.(We never had intercourse though I wanted to) I never did any thing for him and also he never asked to do any sexual act for him. I never have had the chance of even seeing his penis and he never exibited it to me. Why ? Also inspite of several of his requests I permitted him to kiss me on the lips only once. He always derived pleasure in seeing my genitals and inside which I used to show him. Also he enjoyed in seeing me lying down naked on the bed or giving me a naked bath. He was with us only for 2 years. Even now after 5 years I still remember him and love him so much.Please note that I never had oral sex with my husban . Question is "What sort of person he is in sex related life"
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008): Congratulations !
This is the kind of man I want to have as my best friend.
Please be in contact with him and keep him as your best and loving friend. I am sure, he wanted to save you from comitting adultery.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008): May be he did not want you to commit adultery or you did not take any initiative to have sexual intercourse. Also may be you were interested in your own sexual pleasure and not concerned about his needs. Do you regret not having intercourse with him? From your writing I could guss that.
Try to be an active participant in sex not passive. Have a nice time with your husband.
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reader, Uncle_Phil  +, writes (3 June 2008):
 It's obvious - as you only let him kiss you on the lips once, he figured that you weren't 'that sort of girl'!
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reader, q1605  +, writes (3 June 2008):
 He is probably like every other man in his sex related life. He would go as far as you allowed him to go. I don't know if this was your problem, but this would be a good place to start looking for answers. And it's things like this that make men go crazy. You finish one paragraph with that he never asked to have full on sex. You never even got a look at his dick. But you start the next paragraph saying that you only let him kiss you on the lips one time. While he's down the giving you a little slice of nirvana what was stopping you from reaching in his pants and giving his crank a little squeeze. And unzipping his pants and you know where all this is heading. With you not allowing him to kiss you, he may have thought sex was out of the question. I'm guessing your were OK with sex but maybe you thought kissing was more intimate than you were willing to get. I get that and most people would, but it may have dampened how he engaged himself in the act outside of doing you. And some guys just aren't as randy as others. If I was down there giving you what you got from him, my penis would be next to some bare flesh. Somewhere. Sorry, I don't think it could be stopped.
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reader, IamLily  +, writes (3 June 2008):
 I think he is a perturbed person or an impotent, who derives pleasure from non-intercourse activities. It is possible that he was active sometimes ago, but not when he met you.
By the way, did you ever tried to persuade your husband to have the different kind of sex with you? If you do, he may agree. So Open up with your husband and enjoy your life.
Recommended Reading: http://www.howtowin.in/free-books/how-to-win-heart-of-your-wife/chapter-20-sex-with-wife-not-to-be-painful.html
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reader, DiovanLestat +, writes (3 June 2008):
 He's a man who gets excitement from the female body, he seems to love giving women oral sex. He might not have been interested in full sex, or you giving him oral sex because he felt that this would mark him as having caused you to committ adultery. I don't know, and unfortunately he's no longer around to ask.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): My dream guy! lol. Maybe he's one of those guys that just loves doing it and forget about himself.
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female
reader, nlp +, writes (3 June 2008):
 well have u ever concidered of trying to talk to your husband about why not wants oral sex? as mabe he his nervous and dnt wanna say or mabe he dnt wanna feel pressuring you even though your marrid and if you are in love with that other lodger then mabe you should decide who u reli wanna spend your life with as life is too short to hang around for someone you dont enjoy ur life with
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