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*uyshy
writes:I have been dating a girl for a few months now, we are both 22 yrs old. She is a complete daddys girl and always talks about how over protective her dad is. At the very beginning of our relationship I spent the night and when I was leaving in the morning I met her dad walking into her drive way as I was leaving I kinda just put my head down and pretended to not see him. Last weekend we were at her house which is right next door to her parents house, we were messing around on the living room floor. She was completly naked and I was fingering/going down on her when all of a sudden her dad walked in on us. HE quickly left and so did I . Now he wants to offical meet me. I really like this girl but how awkward is this going to be. I feel like such as ass. Yes I know we are both adults and what we do is our business but by th elook the guy gave me that day I could tell he wanted to rip my head off. WHat do I say and do when I meet him.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (20 October 2011):
 I suggest you look him squarely in the eye, offer your hand to be shaken, and - when he takes it - say, "You know, your daughter is ALMOST as hot as your wife!"....
THAT should do it....
Good luck....
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reader, guyshy +, writes (20 October 2011):
guyshy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, I really do love this girl which that alone make me nervous enough. The thought of meeting her dad has literally made me sick even beofre our weekend inncident. @Koala Bear I know I should have at least said hi to him in the driveway but I felt so guilty because I felt like his eyes were buring right through me because of how bad looked with me coming out of her house at 8am if only then I had of known how he would see me next maybe I would have.
I just hope that I dont mess up when we actually meet. Wish me luck
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 October 2011):
 Dress well
groom nicely
stand up straight
walk in
hold out your hand
look him in the eye
firm handshake
"hello mr. xxxxx nice to meet you"
remember you both have something BIG in common.. you both care about his daughter and only want the best for her.
COMMON ground!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (20 October 2011):
 "Hello, sir, nice to meet you." Look him in the eye and shake his hand firmly. Do not get flustered or look dodgy by failing to make eye contact. Be a man, you are in love with his daughter and have done nothing wrong. Stand tall, be respectful and polite and make it clear that you respect and honor his daughter.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (20 October 2011):
 He could have punched you right then, but he didn't. He could have yelled at his daughter to dump you, but he didn't. He could refuse to acknowledge your presence, but he is going out of his way to meet you. Yes he gave a horrible look, but it was probably just shock. No one wants to see that, especially not from their kid!
To me this sounds like a guy who's realistic about sex and someone who understands that his 22 daughter has sex and doesn't want to make a big deal of it. I know the stereotype is the overprotective dad who threatens the boyfriend with a shotgun and shovel, but this does not sound like that stereotype at all.
Just don't mention it and be polite.
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reader, Koala Bear  +, writes (20 October 2011):
 This is something you will look back on years, maybe even days from now and laugh at. Your situation is quit humorous. You walked past her Dad and pretend he wasn't there?! Lol. You probably should have at least said "Good Morning" and kept walking like you would a mail man, or neighbor. And the other situation, well you know her whether her Dad wants to realize it or not she is growing up.Have fun at life's little ironic happenings. You meeting her Dad is going to be challenging with a little twist on it. But just relax and know that it's generally like this for all bf/gf meeting the other's parents.P.S I would really try to impress him upon meeting him. (Imagery: Men with cigars and whiskey sharing with father man's FEELINGS on how his daughter means the world to him.)Maybe not in the literal sense, but you know what I mean.
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reader, sbuxton3  +, writes (20 October 2011):
you have to meet him, as difficult and as uncomfortable as this may be for you, remember that he didn't punch you on the nose there and then! Your both 22 years of age, so your not children anymore.. Dad knows your no longer children and as a parent he proberly knows that his daughter will be engaging in sexual activity at some point.
As you said your girlfriend is really close to her father, so he will respect her. If he wants to meet you he's proberly going to give you the benefit of the doubt and your girlfriend has proberly told him how much you mean to her too. If you go that will be a strong point that he will see on your part and he will then realise just how important his daughter means to you. If you don't go... he'll think your a coward who doesn't think much of this daughter... and then he might want to puncdh you on the nose. Talk to your girlfriend about it, find out what shes said to her father about you and find out what his responses where, just so your prepared!
Good Luck - time to be a responable, sexually active young man!
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