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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I was with my boyfriend for a month and a half, it went so well and everything, he was spoiling me rotten, after a month and a half, I ended it with him because: he started lying to me, not giving me money back which I gave to him, never asked me to meet him, made excuses all the time, deleted my posts' on social networking websites, he never came down to see me or meet my family (we only live a few miles apart) never rang or texting me, cancelled a holiday we both was supposed to go on, and I saw messages by him flirting with other girls saying they're sexy, and that he says they should meet one day with a wink at the end, he smokes loads of marijuana, etc. Now I've just seen a post on my newsfeed saying about a girl who loves him, and she tagged him saying she loves him, and we split up only yesterday. I had sex with him as well.(yes I know it was too quick and he and I were not virgins)and we have had it several times after we had sex, not just the once, which made me feel more attracted to him and I near enough fell for him, but now obviously he's moved on and forgot about me because he has another girl he wants, when I left him a message explaining we should break up because of the messages I seen (he doesn't know I seen them, and I never mentioned it) he just said 'It's working really is it? okay than cool, as long as we can get along and be mates'. So it sounded like he doesn't care.How can I get over this? I feel used and abused and I can't believe I thought an considerate guy like him would do that to me!Thanks.
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (1 May 2010):
There there? This I fear is what life is all about. You must learn from this for the next time. The plos point is that you are now even more attractive than you were because you are learning things about guys and what a bunch of shits they can be?
We are consistent as well as we can act like that from the craddle to the grave. Your ex is abig loser and his actions are those of a boy who has a long way to go before he grows up? Find yourself someone who is more mature - do not have sex with them for at least 3 months!
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (1 May 2010):
 He did you a favor by showing you his real self, which usually happens after the "honeymoon" period in a relationship fades. Some women are so unfortunate as to not see this until after they marry the guy or have kids by them.
Feel sorry for this new girl, because she now has to deal with this dog, and you're now free of him. You should find some girlfriends and go out and paint the town and have a blast, because you're free of this bozo.
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