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How do I overcome embarrassmentof having text sex with him?

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Question - (6 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

there is a boy im really good mates with and we text each other all the time. the other day we were texting each other being flirty n we virtually had text sex. im now embarrassed by what went on. im seeing him at sometime this week and wont be able to look at him properly - how can i overcome the embarrassment n be normal with him? x

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A female reader, clobear United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2008):

clobear agony aunttext sex/phone sex, shouldn't be embarrassing, you obvioulsy trusted him so much that you could do this with him, maybe you have feelings for him and him for you. however if you dont want to do this again just say to him that you didn't mean for it to happen and you would be happy if he didnt mention this to anyone else.

but if you liked it, why not give it a go, its best when your mates forst, they tend to know you better.

good luck what ever you decide, luv chloe x x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

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Thanks for the answer EmilysAnswers! x

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2008):

It depends what it meant to you. Does the text sex mean you want to start going out with him? Or was it just a fun flirty thing?

If you want him to become more than a friend then be confident when you see him. He obviously thinks you are sexy to have said all the things he did in his texts. Think of some one like Mercedees off Hollyoaks, or Angelina Jolie and think how they would act. Be a bit flirty, see if he is flirty back.

If it was just a fun flirty thing then just act completely as normal, pretend it never happened. If he acts a bit embarrassed, then just tell him it was a good laugh and change the subject.

Good Luck! xx

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