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writes:Dear Cupid,Basically, I met this girl (she's a friend of an aquaintance), we really clicked, got on really well, and eventually ended up kissing... we said goodnight etc, and were texting each other when we got in and she ended up saying that "I couldn't be for real" and that "I was amazing" but since then nothing lol. I asked her that night if it was a drunken thing and she said no, and that if it was, she wouldn't have bothered... It's just annoying that I don't actually know where I stand and it's driving me nuts lol. Please help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): lol, she got back to me in the end and blamed it on the drink...
Words cannot describe how gutted i was.
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reader, S - soadlover :-) +, writes (6 April 2008):
 it seems like she may have a confidence issue
like she cannot believe that you would be interested in her
in which case you should reassure her or offer to take her out or something
if it was just a drunken thing messing around then i dont think she would have text you, she would have just left it
the truth is you do not know what was going on in her mind, she could hav had a bf or just come out of a relationship and 'are you for real?' could have been her way out
you should offer to take her out as if it were confidence issues this would give them a boost but if not then you should move on, there are plenty more girls out there for you
good luck
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 April 2008):
It's simple to find out. Phone her!
Ask her if she wants to come out and see a film or get some dinner together.
Have you thought that she might be sitting by her phone waiting for you to get back in touch? Girls don't often do the chasing.
If you want this to be serious then don't pile on the pressure, don't ask her "where do I stand?" or "where is this going?" as that is a bit scary.
Just ask her out on a proper date and then see what happens. If she says yes then take her out and have a great time. If she turns you down then you know to move on.
Good Luck! xx
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reader, I care  +, writes (6 April 2008):
 Ask her out, try spending time with her and see what develops in a short amount of time you'll see where you stand or if she says no to your date or to spending time together you'll know then and there exactly where you stand. Good luck I hope it really works out for you.
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