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How do I date when I go out expecting the worst? Girls have hurt me in the past and laughed behind my back about my penis size.

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Question - (17 August 2012) 9 Answers - (Newest, 21 August 2012)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am 23 years old so I know it wont grow anymore. I am so embarrassed to have sex or even to show myself to a girl when the time comes. I have 4 inch long and 4.5 inch girth penis when erect. I am afraid girls might laugh at me during or afterwards.

I have experience with girls who say at first it is ok and then sometime later she tells her friends and laugh with them

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2012):

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thanks everyone for the great advice!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2012):

A huge shlong is not a magic wand that satisfies ALL women. It's porn fairytale propaganda. Get that nonsense out of your head. A woman's sexual satisfaction is complexed because it is tied to her emotions & to further complicate things every single woman is a unique individual with unique sexual responses. Therefore, sexually satisfying a woman is a SKILL that takes a lifetime to perfect & can only be perfected with ONE woman (your wife) not many. Besides, what use is a shotgun without bullets? Would you rather have a BIG member that can satisfy women but can't make you a father or a small one that can make a woman pregnant? Do you honestly think size will matter if you can't make the woman you love become a mother? PLEASE! focus on what matters most. Hope your MALE PRIDE is restored.

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A male reader, Daniel the love doctor United States +, writes (18 August 2012):

Daniel the love doctor agony auntIt's very true that most women care more about the "motion in the ocean" sort of speak (the way you perform) rather than the size of your penis. But to some size does play a factor. And if your confidence is lacking in the bedroom, then for your peace of mind you may want to learn how to grow your penis... naturally. There are many ways to do this without resorting to pills or surgery. If you would like more information regarding this, feel free to message me. I can direct you over to some helpful sites.

Here's an article that I feel may be beneficial for you to read...

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-size-make-the-man.html

Best Wishes!

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A female reader, Tez7 United Kingdom +, writes (18 August 2012):

Try to go out with confidence and a bit more self respect. these girls you have previously seen are obviously shallow, besides thats not even a bad size, i dont know why they act that way?

dont worry at all about the bedroom, you need to find a good, understanding girl first!

its about you as a person, not your penis. try to not worry so much, you sound like a nice guy, so just be you

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A male reader, grymsoul United States +, writes (18 August 2012):

grymsoul agony auntI guess the saying "The grass is always greener on the other side" is true for this particular topic.

In the past, girls have always said that I'm TOO big. Haha, imagine, that's an actually problem. But here's the thing, I can't get a date to save my life and when I do, they're reluctant to have sex because they say it hurts too much. And I kid you not, my first girlfriend broke up with me because she said sex was just too painful for her. We weren't sexual compatible.

I find myself wishing that I was a bit smaller so that I can have sex more. A big penis is perfect for porno, not so much for real life. Dude, trust me, the grass isn't always greener on the other side. Both sides have their share of problems. I would just stop worrying so much about it and enjoy life for what you do have. There's a guy out there, just got back from war, stepped on a land mine and blew his legs and penis away. True story. He's beating depression and trying to live a normal life as best as he can.

Now can we truly complain after knowing his story?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2012):

If you are overweight then try to lose weight. That should give you an extra 1/2" or so plus girls love skinny guys.

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A female reader, Atsweet1 United States +, writes (18 August 2012):

Atsweet1 agony auntI don't care if they laugh I be coming up short too but I puts it down for real

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A male reader, Hennessy1989 United Kingdom +, writes (17 August 2012):

Hennessy1989 agony auntDon't prepare for the worst, have a bit more confidence in yourself, girls love confidence, girls care alot more about what kind of person you are than your penis size

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (17 August 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony aunt"Sounds" to me like you're prepared to scuttle any potential relationship long before you start it....

Most importantly, please be aware that most - if not all - women are far more concerned with whether or not you can lick your eyebrows, than (with) the dimensions of your "Mr Happy."

Good luck...

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