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Texting etiquette? If I know her name do I use it in the text or just say hi? why does she never initate a text?

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Question - (17 August 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 August 2012)
A male United Kingdom age , *lright writes:

Hello i want to send a good morning text message to a woman who already knows me .

Should i include her first name in the message ? . Also it's always me who initiates the text messages, but when i do send a text message , i get a reply within 3 mins or within a few hours . why? Thank you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2012):

I personally like when people write at least first letter of my name, because Especially with guys they text at once so many girls, I just want to be sure it's me they want to talk to.

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom +, writes (17 August 2012):

AuntyEm agony auntI don't think it's wrong to use someones name in a text if you know them and if she texts you back then it's likely she is happy about you texting her although not enough info to assume she wants a close friendship.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (17 August 2012):

Honeypie agony auntPICK up the phone and call her? (not in the morning though) and TALK to her. If you want to get to know her.. TALK

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (17 August 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntYour submittal is ALL OVER the place.....

1. You ask about sending her a text message... but then tell us it's you who always initiates the messages (Implying that there have been exchanges of messages in the past...)

2. Should you include her name (in those messages)? What have you done in previous text messages? Have you not done so (included her name)? and you want our opinion of whether or not you should change that?

3. You tell of how quickly you get replies... that "tells" us that you and (whoever) are exchanging messages....

More information please?

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