How can I make my husband feel better about our sex life?

A female age 51-59, *ancy50 writes:

I am a woman of 50 years, I married 10 years ago. I was single for 40 years and naturally I had several sexual partners (26 men more precisely). The problem is that I have never had orgasms with my current husband. He is very dedicated in bed, not my best lover but I love him. We have no secrets between us and we share our email accounts. The thing is that in the last years several ex lovers have sent emails reminding us of sexual moments that we have spent together. My husband was angry about it but his anger did not last long. I assured him that I had no attraction for my ex-lovers. It was important to note that he had asked me why I did not have orgasms via intercourse with him and I had answered that I had never had them in that way. The problem is that one of my ex lovers wrote an email, remembering a particular sexual encounter where he caused me a squirt and where he related with many details as I had enjoyed that orgasm, all accompanied by some photos of his erect member (much bigger and thick than my husband's). My husband told me that I was a liar because I had assured him that I had never had orgasms via intercourse. Now he feels like a bad lover and does not really want to have sex with me. On the other hand it is true that I have had orgasms with other men via intercourse and that most of my former lovers were better endowed (my husband has a little bit less of 5 inches and normal girth), What can I do to make him feel better?. The only way I haave orgasms with him is via oral sex

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