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*oraatuha
writes:My boyfriend is going through changes because he is trying to leave his baby mama for meHow can I be of support?Because sometimes I feel guilty that I am getting all of him .... Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (11 March 2013):
 Same as other hundred thousands people who get divorced or terminate a bad relationship. What makes his case so special ?
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reader, doraatuha +, writes (11 March 2013):
doraatuha is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think , everyone who read this question confused it..
i know you all think these things happen like an automatic switch..but they dont
and in reality it doesn't happen like that
when i say leave, these things are a transition.....he has a daughter to consider...
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2013): "Because sometimes I feel guilty that I am getting all of him ...."
You've got it backwards .... He's getting all of you while still getting all (or at least most) of baby mama.
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (2 March 2013):
You do not get " all of him ". He has not left yet, he's just " tryng ".
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (2 March 2013):
 Trying to leave? What's stopping him, are the floorboard there covered with glue, is there a ring through his nose to which a rope is tied, held very firmly by the mother of his child? What's going on there, does his baby cry for him each time he heads for the door, or is it guilt weighing him down and preventing him from leaving?
Do they live together, baby Momma, baby poppa and baby with Momma believing she is in a committed loving relationship or do they live apart. You need to explain a little more about his situation, if they are together as a family is completely different if they are not living together, or sleeping together or are not accepted by mutual friends and family as a couple.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (2 March 2013):
 He either leaves or stays with her. There is no trying to leave. A person trying to leave, you don't call him an official boyfriend yet. What I would say to him is that I would back off until he is sure what he wants but I won't force him to make a decision.
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