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anonymous
writes:His ex wife is so much more attractive than me!I'm seeing a man whose been divorced about 4 years. His ex is remarried and they have a very amicable relationship (they share children).His ex wife is very pretty and it makes me feel very insecure. I don't think I'm an unattractive women, but she has the attributes I feel I lack, for instance-she has large breasts (boob job) and flawless skin. I, on the other hand have almost no breasts and still deal with acne :(The worst of it is, he has yet to see me naked...we got on the topic of breast size once and he said his ex was an A cup prior to getting breast augmentation-and he could see why someone that is that size would want it...well I am about that size! What can I do to feel more secure?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2013): You can be happy in knowing that he married you for more than your physical appearance. Hold your head high on this matter.So you have acne and other skin condition. You are human and so this skin condition can be treated successfully, boobs are not everything and as a man i admit i look at them like other men but at the end of the day i really do not care that they are small or big. It is really about the whole package .
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (5 November 2013):
 If looks were the only measure of faithful love, there would be twelve people maried and the rest of us would be looking for another shot of scotch.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 November 2013):
 there is so much more to being attractive than how you look.
how you feel about yourself has more power than any amount of makeup or push up wonder bra.. although those things do help some folks...
NOTE that she is his ex wife and that says a lot... you are the CURRENT girlfriend.... therefore "you win"
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reader, person12345 +, writes (5 November 2013):
 You're jealous of a boob job? They look nice, but they don't feel very nice! Some guys care about boob size, but most just like them so long as they are boobs and attached to a woman. You don't need big boobs to be really hot!
Also she is his EX wife. Clearly she isn't so attractive to him, or he would still be with her.
As for your acne, a prescription tretinoin cream and an AHA cream can work wonders. Talk to a dermatologist about getting the former (the latter is available online).
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