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anonymous
writes:Started seeing a guy lately and whilst we have been flirting with each other I have noticed he has a wedding ring. I asked him if he was married, and he said he was separated - why then would still wear a ring?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): Find out where he lives - that will tell you if he is separated or still married. I think it is very suspsiscious indeed. However most men intent on lying would perhaps take it off when trying to attract (or trick) someone.
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reader, louweez23 +, writes (21 May 2008):
 I'm separated. I still wear my ring.
However, I am still trying to save my marriage even though my husband has been seeing another woman and is telling me he can't make up his mind between me and her.
So I'm still wearing my ring becasue I am committed to trying to save my marraige. HOWEVER, I am getting very little back from my other half so if I get a better offer in the meantime all bets could be off. Why should I hang on in there hoping he'll choose me when there is someone else out there willing to love me unconditionally.
The best advice I can give you is to ask him straight out "why do you still wear your wedding ring". If he gives you a plausible answer check it out. If you can't htink of a way to cheack it out come back and ask opinions again.
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reader, A Cappella  +, writes (21 May 2008):
 Run like your ass was on fire. Seriously.
Separated isn't divorced. And still wearing his ring means he's still in the marriage. Do not get involved with this man. Hold your head high and walk (or run) away proudly.
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reader, :):):) +, writes (21 May 2008):
I'd imagine most divorcees would remove their ring as soon as their marriage was over. However he could still be wearing it out of habit and mean nothing by it.
Get to know him a bit better before you begin to act on your feelings, maybe suggest you go to his place, if hes still married, there will be plenty of clues laying around. Is there anyone you work with who knows this man well? You could always ask them about him.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 May 2008):
Either habit, or because he doesn't want to be single yet, or because he's lying to you.
Ask him why he's still wearing it, but no matter what he says, don't get too close to him yet. This guy is still married, he will have a lot of baggage and you could end up getting hurt.
Good Luck!! xx
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