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writes:I had a boy friend from two years ago.We had so much fun he was my soul mate he taught me the meaning of love.We broke up because of some issues he had.He promised me that he will propose to me and we would get married, when the issues is resolved. And am sure he is not lying.The problem is we have been not been talking since 6 months.Right now i feel like i totally forget about him like i am suffering from amnesia. I dont know what am feeling anymore. I was so in love with him and now i feel nothing.Yet before that when we broke up i was so sad. Now I am afraid I would be promising him something I can't do. I feel so guilty.But i know i will never find a boy kind like him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank youu :) u really helped me
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (6 September 2014):
He was a special boy in your life and you will always remember him with fondness. But in the last 6 months you have matured and moved on and that is very good for you .Remember you will have many different kinds of love in your life before you meet THE ONE.No need to feel guilty that is life.It would be lovely if you could remain friends with him.Best Wishes NORA B.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (6 September 2014):
 Forgetting him is the right thing to do. Talking about marriage after a break up doesn't make sense. If you have long term intentions with a person you work them out. Not talking just creates distance. What kind of issues requires 6 months of resolving and not talking? It sounded like he didn't care too much about fixing the relationship but mentioned marriage to keep you interested in case he wanted the relationship again. I am very disappointed that the meaning of love is hanging in there after breaking up and being so sad. You will never find a boy like him? Maybe not a boy so stupid, talking about marriage after breaking up, but there are a lot of flakers out there. I hope you never find flakers in the future.
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