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anonymous
writes:Hey everyone... I need a bit of advice. My boyfriend and I have known each other since we were about 3 and dated on and off for years. We started dating about 2 and 1/2 years ago and have lived together for 2 years. I answered his phone the other night and it was a girl he met at the bar. I was mad that he had this girls number so we got into a huge argument and he said his co-workers put him up to it. I thought ok maybe it was just a stupid joke so then we tried to work through it and yesterday we were in my car going to pickup his paycheck and he said it was never a joke and his friends never put him up to it and the she came up to him. He is lieing to me to make it seem better. Im not sure whether to believe him or tell him im done... I love him with all my heart and its like i throw myself at him and he crushes me.. what do I do??
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reader, Rhandy  +, writes (15 December 2008):
 Find the sincerity of the guy before you dumped him out in your heart, and make it sure he loves you before he came back and ask for forgiveness, maybe he cannot take the lie anymore thats why he confess to you, Why dont you give him a chance? but make it sure he is sincere but if not ur not meant to be.
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reader, lilyflower.n  +, writes (13 December 2008):
I give him credit for coming clean but I if i were in your position dump him faster then he could say merry christmas. once your guy learns its ok to flirt with other girls and ur going to let slide, he going to strike out again and again.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (12 December 2008):
 Ask him to delete this girls number from his phone and forget about her for you two to be able to have any future together. He is with you now and he doesnt need to be playing these games with his mates. You may have to have some strong words with the so called 'mates' when you see them, don't they realise that this prank has caused you a lot of heartache. hope this helps.
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