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Since I'm on the pill and we no longer use condoms, he finishes too quickly to give me pleasure.

Q.   Hi, im 17 and have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now... I have recently gone on the pill and it seems to have ruined our sex life! Since we no longer use a condom it takes him a matter of literally 30 seconds to come during sex. This ...

A.   6 September 2008: just open up to him and tell the truth that you are unfulfilled, He might understand the situation.or you might ask him to masturbate before having sex with him, in this case he might get last longer to cum during sex. i told you this based upon my ... (read in full...)

I am debating as to whether or not it would be ok to have sex with this younger man-any advice?

Q.   Some background may help. I am a woman in my early 40’s. My former husband and I were high school sweethearts and married. He and I had one son. About six years ago just before my husband died unexpectedly we adopted two children. After the death of ...

A.   24 August 2008: will for me theres nothing wrong with that. Age doesnt matters as long as you both love each other and satisfy your needs. What matter most is that you understand and love each other inspite of the ages GAP..Goodluck... (read in full...)

I am having trouble getting over her past. Help!

Q.   My girlfriend has a sexual past, as do I. But for some reason hers bothers and haunts me. She's lived a much different life than me. She just got divorced about 2 years ago, and has been with 5 guys since. My mind can't stop picturing her past, It ...

A.   12 August 2008: were both they same situation like my girl, here past always haunt me but i want to accept that i cannot change the past, for being what she have but rather prepare for the future and make the best for both of us. we both have flaws in life but we ... (read in full...)

Oral Sex Phobia? What's his problem?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. I give him oral sex at least 5 times a week. He has never performed it on me and when ever I ask him, he doesn't give me an answer as to way he won't perform on me. He has never given oral sex to ...

A.   9 August 2008: just tell him openly regarding sex, tell him about any position or you may ask wht he fells when ur down on him? and tell him that you want him to down on you and put some feminine wash so that your BF will like it or try ask him 69 position. lol. ... (read in full...)

He wants to have sex, but I feel unready. The very thought of sex freaks me out!

Q.   i am 19 and have been dating my 23 year old boyfriend for 2 years. he wants to have sex, but i just feel that i am not ready. the very thought of sex just freaks me out. i feel i'm letting him down, he tells me he ubderstands but i know he is ...

A.   9 August 2008: if you feel youre not ready please dont do it, you might get in troubled in the near future or maybe his not meant for you, i rather suggest to give yourself to sam1 you really love or after marrieGE ... (read in full...)

Is my LD girlfriend still in love with her EX? Please help!

Q.   Hi viewers, i need your advice regarding my GF, we been 2 years long distance relationship and 4 me its going strong relationship and she accepting my marriage proposal for here and we getting marriage soon after our contract. my problem is s...

A.   4 August 2008: Hi everybody thanks for the responce and it helps me lot, and regarding to Infidel asking how old is she, My GF is 26 and his X BF i think 25 or 24 and im 25. Thanks... (read in full...)

Is there any given time that a girl is obsessed with sex?

Q.   Hi readers? Just want to hear different answers for the viewers. 1) is it true that a girl whose in vinicity of her period is obsessed in sex? 2) if not, when usually is a girl obsessed with sex? is there any given time? thanks...

A.   2 August 2008: thanks to those who shared their advice i really appreciate it.... (read in full...)

I am 14, he is 35, we met online, and in person, I was forced to do something I did not want to, I have tried to end contact with him, I am very afraid, what should I do?

Q.   Hey im 14 and a few weeks ago i met a guy online who was 35. He was really nice to talk to and i've never had a father around so it was conforting to find a father like figure to talk to. Well a few days ago i went to meet him in person, he took me ...

A.   31 July 2008: ask your parents before its to late.... (read in full...)

How do I tell my boyfriend that I'm not a virgin? Will he still accept me?

Q.   How will I tell my boyriend that I am no longer a virgin?will he still accept me as I am? ...

A.   29 July 2008: Just tel him in a good manner, if he truly loves you im sure he will accept you, but if didnot accept you, he is not the one deserverd for your love , Love is not a look by his physical aspect but you must accept inspite of what he/she really is. ... (read in full...)

Did the older man that took my virginity just want me for sex?

Q.   I am from a religious culture. Half a year ago, I lost my virginity to a man much older than me. I knew it was wrong but I couldn't resist the temptation. I loved him and I am still in love with him. I told him several times I was not ready and ...

A.   28 July 2008: dont give your love to the one who didnt love you, even though you lost ur virginity, what matter most is you are true to yourself and i know there sam1 in the future who will mean for you. just wait.... (read in full...)

I'm tired of making time for him while he's often unavailable!

Q.   I've been dating this for the past 3 yrs my problem is he works from monday to saturday,he doesn't have time for movies or anything with me we only have a sunday for each other.the problem is that i'm a church goer so i just have time for him for ...

A.   28 July 2008: Just try to make things smoothly by telling him the feelings u felt, confront him and talk to him what you want to do. Dont hide the truth, tell him in a good way. and lets find out what he says.... (read in full...)

Marriage: To be or not to be?

Q.   Dear Cupid July 26/08 I went out with a nice girl for 2 years and I intend to marry her. WE did not have any other partners. But I have mixed emotions regarding the virginity issue as I was a virgin and she was not b...

A.   28 July 2008: will we have they same situation it which i came up his 2nd time having sex but its not affect my feeling for here, i really love here and eventhough she has experienced before and totally disgraced me but my love for here and here love for me is ... (read in full...)

What's the best position for sex???

Q.   Im just curious to find out which is the best sexual position....... xxx...

A.   24 July 2008: i reccomend doggie styke. lol... (read in full...)

Can you have an STD if you're a virgin?

Q.   Is it possible to have an STD when you're a virgin? Beside crabs and scabies and such. Just curious......

A.   24 July 2008: yes it possible epecially when you contact with the person who had experienced STD... (read in full...)

Is 10 minutes of foreplay enough?

Q.   hi everybody, i need your answer for different viewers (men and women) my question is how much time would a girl satisfied of foreplay before getting in? its ok if i take 10 minutes foreplay before getting in? Thanks...

A.   24 July 2008: thanks for the advises it helps me a lot, a... (read in full...)

I am a 27 year old virgin, when I date men and they find out, they back off, thinking something is wrong, what do I do to combat this?

Q.   Hello everyone. I don't know how to write what I want to without sounding like a complete loser. lol. Well, the thing is that till date, I have had only short-term relationships, the longest of which was perhaps 4 months. And because I did...

A.   23 July 2008: for me its fine, and i'm happy to hear that my GF is virgin and it related to your case, dont worry about that and dont give your virginity to the one you really dont love,... (read in full...)

I'm the girl, but I'm more sexual experience than him. Is it wrong for me to teach him?

Q.   I dont want to scare him...this new guy i am seeing is great, in so many ways........but very inexperienced... I had been with my ex bf for a long time, and we both lost our virginity to eachother, we took things very slow. Im with this new guy now,...

A.   23 July 2008: its ok if u do the first move and for me it makes me more challenging and passionate with sex if my girl is more experienced.... (read in full...)

The thought of getting caught really turns me on!

Q.   the thought of getting caught really turns me on when were having sex, i know it sounds really strange. when me and my boyfriend are having sex, i prefer to do it like, in his bedroom when his parents are in, or in his car, where its risky, i dont ...

A.   23 July 2008: yeah, i like it to, but for me its makes me excited especially having sex in here house with his family. it adds me thrill and obsession of sex. i really like it, and i think its normal.... (read in full...)

Will masturbating stop me from having kids when I grow up?

Q.   does masturabatng stop me from having kids when i grow up ...

A.   22 July 2008: no, just it just a part of being adolescence. ... (read in full...)

How can I make my brother's girlfriend show herself in her true colour?

Q.   My brother has a girlfriend who I can't stand because she calls me names (like, tramp,slut and many more) and makes of fun my friends. I did nothing to her cause by bro would kill me if found mistreat her but give her the right to treat me like ...

A.   21 July 2008: just get a recorder and record what she says, i thnk thats a good idea,... (read in full...)

How can I make my brother's girlfriend show herself in her true colour?

Q.   My brother has a girlfriend who I can't stand because she calls me names (like, tramp,slut and many more) and makes of fun my friends. I did nothing to her cause by bro would kill me if found mistreat her but give her the right to treat me like ...

A.   21 July 2008: just get a recorder and record what she says, i thnk thats good idea,... (read in full...)

How do know if he's happy? If I'm doing it right?

Q.   Hi everyone! i got something bothering me. I've just started having sex and i don't know if i'm doing it right! How do i know if I satisfy him or not and i'm still terribly shy that i can't even walk naked in the room in front of him! Is there an...

A.   20 July 2008: will it just because things is just started however u can use to it as long as u do it regularly and soneer u will never hesitate to him.(BONDING) 1st tip* ask your Bf if he really enjoy what you did, ask him if what position, style he wants to. ... (read in full...)

I need help....I can't stop cheating on my boyfriend and he thinks he's the only one I've had sex with!

Q.   OMG!... I need help ASAP!... I can't believe im such a "b" !!! =(... I have a bf... im 23 he is 28... we have almost 4 years dating... I met him here in this country where I live now 5 years ago. Last year I got a phone call from a good friend fr...

A.   20 July 2008: it that case you must follow your heart, whose the one that you need most, that can understand you and love you faithfully, what matter most is that be sure that you love that person youre whom to be with and not only for sex because sex may fade ... (read in full...)

How come this guy I met at a bar never got an erection?

Q.   met a guy in a bar, went home with him, skinny-dipped made out for a couple of hours, he never got an erection, we were drinking heavily, tried to go all the way but he never could get it up, any answers?...

A.   20 July 2008: Yeah it happen sometimes because of the heavily drunk in alcohol it never got to an erection and ive still remember that when i want to have sex with my gf but no matter how i tried only my mind works but my penis nothings come out. i was so drunk ... (read in full...)

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