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He stares alot does that mean he likes me? Or just being a friend?

Q.   Ihave this guy friend and we are good friends intially but lately I have caught him staring at me alot more then usual.Then when I do catch him, he turns his head away quickly. Im not sure whether he likes me that way because we have known each ...

A.   14 November 2010: Sometimes though he doesnt turn his head away, he keeps staring until I turn away. He often has a blank look on his face. But friends even good friends dont stare at their friends for countless seconds unless they like them right??? My friends are ... (read in full...)

Is it a good thing if he stares at me?

Q.   Ok, I take the bus to school and my good guy friend rides with me and I fell asleep across from him and then I woke up like 10 secs later and I caught him staring at me. Then the other day my best friend caught him staring at me. I don't know what ...

A.   16 October 2010: our friendship... (read in full...)

He stares alot does that mean he likes me? Or just being a friend?

Q.   Ihave this guy friend and we are good friends intially but lately I have caught him staring at me alot more then usual.Then when I do catch him, he turns his head away quickly. Im not sure whether he likes me that way because we have known each ...

A.   27 April 2010: yea ok..I accept that but he told my friend, he didn't like me that way. is that normal?... (read in full...)

He gave his number to a girl at a bar. I don't know what to believe or what to do!

Q.   Hey everyone... I need a bit of advice. My boyfriend and I have known each other since we were about 3 and dated on and off for years. We started dating about 2 and 1/2 years ago and have lived together for 2 years. I answered his phone the other ...

A.   13 December 2008: I give him credit for coming clean but I if i were in your position dump him faster then he could say merry christmas. once your guy learns its ok to flirt with other girls and ur going to let slide, he going to strike out again and again.... (read in full...)

I like this guy I know and want to talk to him, and maybe let him know, but I have no idea how to approach him, any ideas?

Q.   Ok, so this guy and I know I like him but I don't know how to confront him. Its awkard because we have not talked in like a really long time.( a year at the most) His friends look at me and all that. + I cant find a reason to approach him without ...

A.   12 September 2008: I have already done all that. I have tried every trick in the book but he won't approach me. Dang it! I guess I have to resort to giving him my email address. Any more ideas?... (read in full...)

He's a bit shy and he won't approach me. How do I get him to ask me out?

Q.   I'm kind of confused, there is this guy I like and I am pretty sure he likes me back. The thing is he is a bit shy and he won't approach me. How do I get him to ask me out? It all started when his friend asked me if I liked him, but of course I said...

A.   15 August 2008: I don't have his number because my friend gave him my number. We did not see each other after class. ... (read in full...)

He's a bit shy and he won't approach me. How do I get him to ask me out?

Q.   I'm kind of confused, there is this guy I like and I am pretty sure he likes me back. The thing is he is a bit shy and he won't approach me. How do I get him to ask me out? It all started when his friend asked me if I liked him, but of course I said...

A.   15 August 2008: He just has not called, does this mean he doesn't like me after all? I have waited all summer for his call.I think its up to me to ask him out. I agree tremor, I'm going to have to hire a plane with banner that says ASK ME OUT ALREADY WILL YA!? here ... (read in full...)

He's a bit shy and he won't approach me. How do I get him to ask me out?

Q.   I'm kind of confused, there is this guy I like and I am pretty sure he likes me back. The thing is he is a bit shy and he won't approach me. How do I get him to ask me out? It all started when his friend asked me if I liked him, but of course I said...

A.   15 August 2008: He knows I like him now because I admitted it. Still he won't approach me. I gave him my phone number hoping he'll call but that plan backfired. What do I do now? help!! Do I just approach him and say hi and directly ask whether he likes me? ... (read in full...)

Why did he act the way he did?

Q.   I really like this guy and we are in good terms with each other mutually. We met last year and have been good friends ever since. He says I love you to me and all that. He continually stares at me when I walk by his area. We never talked much to ...

A.   8 August 2008: I don't know this guy and I are well liked by our groups. We are not what some people call a compatible couple. Most people I think would be super surprised if we got together. Which is now a possibility because I think he likes me back. I admitted ... (read in full...)

What does it mean when he stared at me and not her?

Q.   Ok, this one time I was standing off to one side and He was less then a foot away. lets say her name is katrina and she was closer to him then I was. u think he stare at the prettier of the two which in this case is katrina. he barely gave her a ...

A.   8 August 2008: thanks for the ego boost. I need it alot. this guy has alot of my time in him too. ... (read in full...)

I want to break up with her as a friend, but I might lose my other friends as well?

Q.   Ok, so I met this girl, let say her name was kaithlin. She became my bff but I was the only one trying to keep our friendship going, I mean sometimes she will take charge but it lasts usually 5 seconds flat. Then one of our classmates came into the...

A.   6 August 2008: I know if I break the strings of our friendship, everyone is going to be questioning why I did. My other two friends will be like spokesmen for kaithlin. Just last year she lost her grandpa( kaithlin, now she is losing me, the first person she has ... (read in full...)

I want to break up with her as a friend, but I might lose my other friends as well?

Q.   Ok, so I met this girl, let say her name was kaithlin. She became my bff but I was the only one trying to keep our friendship going, I mean sometimes she will take charge but it lasts usually 5 seconds flat. Then one of our classmates came into the...

A.   6 August 2008: Well, I did break up with her but not directly. I sort of drifted off, I stopped attempting to be her friend. I sent her a email. ... (read in full...)

Would he be excited by ANY girl telling him they liked him, or just me?

Q.   would a guy be really excited if a girl said she like him and if he had not dated in a while i think. Let say his name is zach and I admitted I like him. He was really happy and all that. would he act the same with another girl?...

A.   2 August 2008: He did not exactly reject me, he is my friend. We dont talk much. social groups I suppose. thanks for the advice. He kept my phone number and the note I sent to him. That probably doesnt not mean anything huh? He stares at me with permeant grin on ... (read in full...)

Would he be excited by ANY girl telling him they liked him, or just me?

Q.   would a guy be really excited if a girl said she like him and if he had not dated in a while i think. Let say his name is zach and I admitted I like him. He was really happy and all that. would he act the same with another girl?...

A.   2 August 2008: Well,of course but he would stare at me alot and I catch him at it too.... (read in full...)

My male mates tell me that my best friend likes me back - but I don't want to ruin our friendship if I tell him this. Your opinions?

Q.   Hey, I like this boy and my male mates say that he likes me back. I am sure he doesn't i really don't know who to belive. Should i tell him or what. If i tell him i am scared that it will ruin our friendship as best mates! what should i do? ple...

A.   20 July 2008: You should trust your instint and if your guy friend likes you, watch what he does around you. Don't go with what other people say, they might saying that just so you dont get hurt. Don't confront him about it if you are not sure because it could ... (read in full...)

How do I get the message across that I like Zach?

Q.   Let say his name was Zach and he has been my crush for nearly two years now. His friend one wednesday decides to ask me whether I like him. Here how it went: Friend: hey do you like Zach? Me: No Friend:oh( goes back to tell him my answer) Fr...

A.   20 July 2008: thanks for your help. I think this Zach and I have a lot to work out. I think he was just trying to confirm what my friend told him. I wrote him a note telling him that I like him and he believes me. Now I was not there when My friend gave him the ... (read in full...)

How do I know if a guy just wants me for my body?

Q.   how do I know when my guy just wants me because of my body. He always stares at me with his eyes below the neckline.I have always caught him doing it too.how do I know?...

A.   20 July 2008: I did that and he still stares but I think he is a bit of a shy guy because he does not say things like that to me anyway. He always stares at me with a smile anyway. I think he likes me for sure but I'm just not sure he likes me or my body. thanks ... (read in full...)

I feel like wrecking my family could be the worst thing I could possibly do but I cannot force myself to fall back in love with my husband.

Q.   To make a long story short, I feel like I got married too young and for the wrong reasons. Today after several years of marriage and 2 small kids, I feel the man I married isn't the man he used to be after he seriously betrayed my trust. I know I am ...

A.   11 July 2008: wow, you are quite stuck here. Look nobody can force themsevles to fall in love. If you don't love him you don't love him, first accept that and then decide what is the best thing to do. talk to him about how you feel. best of luck xo... (read in full...)

Am I obsessed or crazy? I can't seem to get this guy out of my head!

Q.   i've been crazy....actually obsessed about this guy for about a year now. I used to date him a few times, after which he said we'd better remain friends. still i wasn't over him and went out with him another time, and said to me to remain freinds ...

A.   10 July 2008: I'm in the same siaution but in my case we did not go out. No matter what you do or say, he will always be on your mind. Get whatever is causing your obsession out of your system.sounds like you are majorly falling hard for this guy.... (read in full...)

We have a son, we care about each other, but he says he does not love me, does not want to marry me, should I move on or what??

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We have a one year old son together (who was not planned). Our relationship seemed to be going well until I asked about marriage and he replied that he didn't love me and didnt ever see himself ...

A.   10 July 2008: I agree with Smiles and I don't think he deserves you. Look, this guy obviously wont care if you move on or not. Yes he will have to give child support. Move on while you still can so the separation is easy on the child. Do what you think you should ... (read in full...)

Told him I like him in writing, gave him my number, no call at all, he just stares, is he afraid or not interested?

Q.   Ok, so I tell this guy i like him by sending him a note. I give my phone number to him too. he stares at me alot. whenever another girl passes he does notice her wen im around. But so far he has not attempted to call. is this his way of saying he ...

A.   6 July 2008: he does not notice her when im around is what I meant... (read in full...)

He just stares at me constantly, does he like me or does he just like to look?

Q.   is normal for a guy to be happy when a girl stands near him? Or stare at her like crazy. This guy just stares at me and when another hottie passes by he doesnt noticed his eyes are pratically glued to me. Whenever he sees me or me with my friends ...

A.   6 July 2008: I know him, he introduced himself last year in science class. We get along well. He stares at me and we hold eye contact longer then normal. He was surprised and happy when I admited I like him.... (read in full...)

He just stares at me constantly, does he like me or does he just like to look?

Q.   is normal for a guy to be happy when a girl stands near him? Or stare at her like crazy. This guy just stares at me and when another hottie passes by he doesnt noticed his eyes are pratically glued to me. Whenever he sees me or me with my friends ...

A.   6 July 2008: I know him actually, he is one of friends friend. We met last year and got along well too. I have a major crush on him. We like each other in a friendly way yet we stared at each other longer then we should.... (read in full...)

I need to know if he really likes me, or is he just flattered?

Q.   Let's say his name is Zach and he stares at me alot. I liked him for over a year now. We have talked a bit. Finally I admit I like him. He is supposely really happy. Does he like me or is he just flattered?...

A.   26 June 2008: I gave him my phone number but he still won't call. I do not know what his phone number is. ... (read in full...)

I need to know if he really likes me, or is he just flattered?

Q.   Let's say his name is Zach and he stares at me alot. I liked him for over a year now. We have talked a bit. Finally I admit I like him. He is supposely really happy. Does he like me or is he just flattered?...

A.   25 June 2008: I'm kind of shy and he is one of the most popular kids in school. His friends make it uncomfortable to approach him and he is hardly ever alone.... (read in full...)

How do I get the message across that I like Zach?

Q.   Let say his name was Zach and he has been my crush for nearly two years now. His friend one wednesday decides to ask me whether I like him. Here how it went: Friend: hey do you like Zach? Me: No Friend:oh( goes back to tell him my answer) Fr...

A.   25 June 2008: i have already admitted I like him but I dont think he believes me!... (read in full...)

I need to know if he really likes me, or is he just flattered?

Q.   Let's say his name is Zach and he stares at me alot. I liked him for over a year now. We have talked a bit. Finally I admit I like him. He is supposely really happy. Does he like me or is he just flattered?...

A.   24 June 2008: We talked like a few minutes or he just wants to say hi or something.... (read in full...)

Should I risk telling my friend I love her?

Q.   I've developed feelings for my straight friend, who's also a girl (S). She doesn't know this yet, but I want to tell her. I know that most teenagers go through this stage of sexuality confusion (we're both 15 in our last year of school), and it's ...

A.   23 June 2008: Sure go for it but I think you're just recovering from and want someone to crush on or love. Its your choice.... (read in full...)

I need to know if he really likes me, or is he just flattered?

Q.   Let's say his name is Zach and he stares at me alot. I liked him for over a year now. We have talked a bit. Finally I admit I like him. He is supposely really happy. Does he like me or is he just flattered?...

A.   23 June 2008: I don't know he is really flirty with other girls but with me he never seems to know what to say. ... (read in full...)

This guy stares at me a lot, does this mean he likes me or is he just staring?

Q.   Let say this guy's name is Zach and I sent him a note saying I really do like him. He stares at me alot with a sort of knowing look on his face. does this mean he likes me or is he just staring?...

A.   18 June 2008: We have talked before, we are already friends so I know he knows I like him because I admitted it. He was really happy about too.... (read in full...)

He stares but we never talk. Is he shy? Is he waiting for me to make the first move?

Q.   We have known each other since the beginning of middle school. We have never talked much but when we do he and I are at a loss of words and when that happens he stares at me like crazy. I never know what to say around him and he seems to be that way ...

A.   18 June 2008: I'm actually only thirteen... (read in full...)

He stares but we never talk. Is he shy? Is he waiting for me to make the first move?

Q.   We have known each other since the beginning of middle school. We have never talked much but when we do he and I are at a loss of words and when that happens he stares at me like crazy. I never know what to say around him and he seems to be that way ...

A.   15 June 2008: I did send him a note saying I like him.He seem really pleased that I did. But he still won't confront me about it.... (read in full...)

What do you think of my note of apology to my crush that I unsulted last week?

Q.   I'm now in a very awkard siuation because I think I offended my crush by accident. I should apologize, but how? Here's what I wrote in my apology note: "Hey, I'm really sorry if I offended you last friday. You have every right to be mad at me....

A.   12 June 2008: True but it turn out he wasn't offended at all in fact I think he was glad to hear from me.... (read in full...)

How do I get the message across that I like Zach?

Q.   Let say his name was Zach and he has been my crush for nearly two years now. His friend one wednesday decides to ask me whether I like him. Here how it went: Friend: hey do you like Zach? Me: No Friend:oh( goes back to tell him my answer) Fr...

A.   11 June 2008: Hey, so I should just say yes next time?... (read in full...)

Update-What do you think would happen if I came up to him?

Q.   Thanks for the help you guys. I always figured this guy wasn't the best person to crush on. Even if I did offend him by saying he looks funny because he dressed up.Winning the debate must have taken his mind off the note. I don't know what to do ...

A.   9 June 2008: Hey, Thanks for the help so do you really think this guy not worth it? I really like him and it been two years of infuation with him. ... (read in full...)

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