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writes:there is this lad.; who is about 8 years older than me, we have been m8z for quite a few years. wen we first met i had a huge crush on him, which he found out about. but then got over it. recently, over the past year he has been relaly flirty over msn (like telling me i have a great body and sayin its a shame we aint same age and stuff). but whenever we are together he acts totlly normal, and unflirty.however, last night, we was both at a friends party (he wasnt drunk because he couldnt drink because was driving) and he would keep hugging me all the time, and dancing behind me or with his arm round me with his hand on my bum. also he would like hug me and say i can get away with feeling your boobs when i hug you becuase no 1 can see. he kept telling me i looked really nice and he loved the view down my dress and stuff. also he kissed me quite a few times.. just a peck on the lips but about 3 or 4 times when he did, he would kiss me properly (with tongues) but only for like a couple of seconds. anslo one time i was hugging him after he kissed me and he started tryiing to kiss my neck and give me a little love bite on my neck. finally, when was saying good bye to him he kissed me properly again and like held my hand as he wasled to door an then kissed my hand and said good bye.what do you all think?? because he wernt drunk but i no for a fact that he doesnt fancy me ???please
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reader, Susan Strict +, writes (3 May 2008):
 This is fairly standard behaviour for many young (-ish) men at a party IF they think they can get away with it. If you didn't like it, you really should have told him to stop doing it.
He clearly finds you attractive and desirable, but that doesn't mean he really wants a relationship with you. Equally, it doesn't mean that he doesn't want a relationship with you. Some (most??) men find many, many women physically attractive.
Why don't you ask him? Something like "Hey! What was all that stuff at the party?!! You didn't leave me alone!" and see what his reaction is when he's away from a party atmosphere.
If it's any help, I can remember several parties in my late teens when nearly everyone seemed to have paired off dancing or into dark corners and I ended up with the same boy for a kiss and a cuddle. Very pleasant. And that's as far as it went, although we knew each other quite well and never had any sort of relationship except at those parties!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): well
if it were me i would not let him do that to me. but im not you. you guys are friends right? well tell him thats all you want to be, unless you like this special attenion. any way, mabie hes doing this to show off that he can get a younger girl or hes tring to making someone jealous. i'm sorry to say this but your sound like arm candy. you could ask him what this is all about, or might keep going on. talk to him about it. at least try
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): well
if it were me i would not let him do that to me. but im not you. you guys are friends right? well tell him thats all you want to be, unless you like this special attenion. any way, mabie hes doing this to show off that he can get a younger girl or hes tring to making someone jealous. i'm sorry to say this but your sound like arm candy. you could ask him what this is all about, or might keep going on. talk to him about it. at least try
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reader, WiccanWonder +, writes (3 May 2008):
 I think he does like you, i would approch him about it. And maybe ask him out for a date or something?
I hope this helps
Love & Hugs
Tasha x
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