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*atricktabu
writes:my girlfriend recently started complaining of my penis size. Could this be the sign she is cheating on me?
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reader, patricktabu +, writes (26 September 2011):
patricktabu is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you my seniors,
Most of you said it is not the sign she's cheating. That must be true because after a chat with her she said she was only joking that it small, she apologised. We were having a lovely conversation when she complained in the first place. am deeply in love with her.
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (23 September 2011):
 What is she complaining about?
It may not be a sign she is cheating, but it IS a sign something is wrong!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (23 September 2011):
 It could be but more likely than not it's your perception of whatever she said about it because there is NO bigger issue we guys have than our size or lack thereof. I'd bet if you replayed the event and the words, you could come up with an alternative "message" Just chill out and be happy with the fact you have someone that is intimate with you at all
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2011): Here is what you can do. If the complaint is that she thinks you're too small, dump her. You don't need your confidence knocked down. No girl has the right to do that to you. Be proud of what you have. No matter what you have, you have a larger size than millions of other men. Take pride in that. I don't have the biggest in the world but my girlfriend is a girl who loves my size. (Yes, I left a girl who didn't like my size because she was a size queen). Guess what? Sex with my new girlfriend is a lot better because the ones that are size queens usually have much larger parts themselves. She is insensitive, you don't need this. Don't worry about her cheating on you, if she is, you leave, no worries, no problems. Find a girl who suits you. You will feel much better. If she is just complaining about it to you, do the same to her and see how she reacts. Ask her why she does this, if she gives no good answer, and is cruel to you, leave the abusive relationship
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2011): What exactly is she complaining about? Is it too big or too small? She's being rude and insensitive, as it is a) something a guy has no control over and b) a highly sensitive matter and something many guys are insecure about, although bigger isn't necessarily better, I much prefer average to be honest as it is more comfortable. Anyway, to get back to the matter, she sounds like she is childish and is trying to hurt your feelings or get some kind of reaction from you. If she is so disrespectful to you, maybe she's not such a nice girl. However, it doesn't mean she is cheating on you. Next time she does it, point out to her that it's the same as if you started complaining that her boobs were too small, or her labia too big or something. It's just hurtful.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (23 September 2011):
 Complain about her vagina? Sorry, that is just silly. How are you supposed to fix it? I say she is VERY immature and rude to boot.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (23 September 2011):
 It's not a sign that she is cheating. It's more a sign that there is trouble in your relationship and in the way you communicate. You should specify and give more information on what she says, under what circumstance, why she says it, and how you react to it.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 September 2011):
 what is her complaint? too big? too small? too soft?
it's rude to complain about something that you have no control over.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 September 2011):
I don't think this is a sign of cheating. I do think it's a sign of immaturity, a woman who has little understanding of men and an uncaring attitude.
On the basis if just that, I'd dump her and move on.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (23 September 2011):
 It depends....
If she complained that it's too darned tiny, then perhaps she is..
If she complained that it's so enormous that she's considering not putting out for you any more, then she probably isn't....
Either way.... you're in serious trouble.....
Good luck...
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