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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes: Hi allI have been going out with my boyfriend for over two years. Over a year ago I read some texts he had sent to another male, he said he missed him and had got him a present.He also asked him if he wanted to meet. When I questioned him about this he said he didn't know who it was that it was just someone that started texting and he just responded. Recently I found naked pics of my boyfriend on his phone taken couple of months ago and sent to someone (don't know the number as its not in his phone). Does this mean he is gay and seeing someone else or what. Also in his phone were texts to some unknown person about a threesome. Again he denied knowing who they were and said he just started texting back for the fun of it.Please help - My confidence is at an all time low and don't know what to do for the best. If I challenge him about the pics he will know I have gone through his phone which I shouldn't have but then I would never have known what he gets up to. Sorry for long question
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (17 January 2007):
 You were naughty by looking at this phone but he was dishonest and still being a coward about it.
Now that you know that truth, get it over and done with.
I am sorry but this guy wants something you can give him. You cannot compete with that. It is not your fault.
You need to leave him and move on.
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female
reader, Lilly223  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 Frankly, I'd be less worried about him being pissed cause you went thru his phone and more worried about where he has been putting his Johnson.
I'd demand some truthful explination, and if you don't get an acceptable (and believable!!! response), I'd hand him his phone, his bags and cab fair to the nearest corner far away from you, and then I'd take myself to the nearest dr. for a series of STD tests.
This guy isn't being honest with you.
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (15 January 2007):
 You say he denies knowing who they are, so he obviously knows that you have been prying. It also seems you have issues of trust, or you wouldn't be prying in the first place.
I know one thing - if my girlfriend is sending naked pictures of herself to anyone but me, something is rotten in Denmark. If your boyfriend is sending them to guys. . . my guess is he's taken a trip or two down the Hershey Highway (he likes boys, in other words). If he's sending them to girls. . . he's trolling for female action.
Either way, something isn't right in your relationship.
Good luck!
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