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writes:My boyfriend and I broke up about a year ago. I was hurt at how quickly he met someone else and moved in with her. I have a good job and am responsible...I think he was bored with me. His next girlfriend was more compatible with him..willing to go to the bars with him all the time, she called the cops on him...a lot more drama. I heard they have split and that he is taking it really hard where he was not bothered at all by the split with me. I am thinking it is because he was in love with her and not with me. Any thoughts?
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reader, stina  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 Hi Anon,
Well, maybe it was thrilling for him to be with someone "wild." Maybe she had knocked down his self confidence so losing her has hit him harder than with someone who left him with some dignity. I don't know - there are numerous reasons why he might be a wreck after this relationship. Maybe it was love, maybe it wasn't.
I have to agree with the others - why would you waste your time thinking about it? If it's because you still have feelings for him, then I wouldn't act on that just yet; I would even say let him contact you if things are to work out with the both of you in the future. You don't want to go putting yourself in the middle of this crazy relationship they have going. And who knows if they won't get back together again. It sounds like everything about them is filled with drama. I suggest you stay away from that.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007): Yes, why does it matter now? You and he ended a year ago. As Eddie says, what good would it do you to know? And what would you do with such information if you had it?
My thoughts are to recommend you think about enjoying your own life, and seeing if you can meet a nice, compatible man - if you want to, that is.
Let the past be the past.
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reader, eddie +, writes (15 January 2007):
 Who knows. And really, why would you waste any time thinking about it. What does it really mean. Maybe he did love her more. What would you do with that information and how would it change your life?
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