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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm 19 and the guy I like/work with is 25. I found out he liked me from someone else a month ago and ever since then we've been working the same hours and seeing ALOT of each other at work but just having short conversations since we're busy working.He's a shy guy and I'm a shy girl we both blush a lot!!. Last week was our first date and tomorrow we're going bowling. He asked me yesterday if I was "talking" to any other guys at work. I told him no and I asked the same to him with girls. He said no but he gets harassed. Then he said " I need you to shield them away" he's sending me a lot of mixed signals. He rarely ever texts me. And when he does it's a short conversation. After our first date he walked me to my truck and hugged me then when I got home he sent me a text saying I looked nice tonight. When he wants to hangout it's always in the evening. We were suppose to go to the artwalk tonight but I told him I had a bad headache so he said I owed him a kiss. And what's good for headaches is a massage. So he likes me, gets jealous when I talk to guys, and only wants to hangout and do something at night? I really like this guy a lot! He's nice and sweet but is he even looking for a relationship or just someone to "hangout" with?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (4 January 2014):
 He doesn't want to appear too eager so he's just joking and flirting with you. You've only been on a date one time so maybe later you can plan something during the day time. Some people are not texters. I would much rather prefer doing activities over texting. Sounds like my kind of guy. You shouldn't be thinking so much in the future yet. Just enjoy the time together and get to know each other first. He is a guy, he will be wanting intimacy while acting like a gentleman. He is among many guys who think that when he meets the right kind of girl, then he will think about relationship. When you lay it all out in the open it loses its suspense and mystery. Maybe he feels dating a coworker is tricky because if the relationship doesn't work out you are stuck with each other at the work place. So it's normal that he is playing it cool now.
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