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Opinions needed! Is he just being nice or is he REALLY interested in me?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I was just wondering if this boy is interested in me. Lets call him P well here is a list of things P does. Stares at me during classes and looks away fast when i look at him. We talk online for HOURS AND HOURS!! He asked me f...

A.   4 September 2010: No he likes you.... (read in full...)

My best friend told me he loved me...

Q.   My best friend, (he's a guy, I'm a girl) have been close for years.Recently, he told me that he is in love with me. We tried the whole dating thing a few years back and we kissed. I had to break it off with him though because it started getting ...

A.   4 September 2010: Well not telling him certainly isn't making things easier, just put it down plainly and move on...trust me he will too.... (read in full...)

Do texting like this and the situation mean its more than friends?

Q.   We've been close friends for a year at university, and recently we've got closer since we saw each other with other friends in a small summer get-together. Nothing happened but afterwards since we've parted again, for about a week since, we've been ...

A.   4 September 2010: So grab your balls, man up and tell her how you truly feel, thats the only way I know. If yes great, if no, its will suck but life goes on. Just do it!... (read in full...)

I want him to realize what he's got but I fear he never will!

Q.   ok im not sure where to start but after working with my friend for the past year we formed a good friendship but ive always had feelings for him. he had a breakdown earlier in the year which i helped him through and have been there for him a ...

A.   4 September 2010: If you have feelings for him you need to tell him. If you get the answer you want then great, if not, it will suck. But wishing someone knew how you felt about them isn't telling them. So tell him and go from there. ... (read in full...)

Anyone else feel worthless?

Q.   Anyone else feel worthless? Men think that women are objects. That no means yes. That every woman is theirs for the taking because that's what it means to be a man. It's just the way they are... just like it's the way we are. We are worth nothing. ...

A.   14 July 2010: Yeah, not all guys are like that, I know I'm not, and I would have to say I'm one of those "Nice Guy syndrome" guys. ... (read in full...)

Worried about having sex for the first time

Q.   I am 15 years old, almost 16, and my girlfriend is 16. We have been together for 6 months, but we were friends before this. We are deeply in love, and care hugely for one another - the thought of losing her makes me feel physically sick. We a...

A.   13 April 2010: Dude, I have a career with job security, an apartment, a car, little bit a cash in the bank, and I'm 26. If I had a child right now, I would be screwed, so, take the clue man. However, losing my virginity wasn't really a big deal. I don't know if ... (read in full...)

What does it usually mean when you're dancing with a guy and you catch him looking away? (male opinion preferred)

Q.   I don't ever want to be that girl who is not wanted around. I was dancing with this one guy at a club and it was a pretty crazy night so yes I was drunk but coherent. Everything was all right and then I notice him looking up and away. It seemed to ...

A.   13 April 2010: No drunk girls are not fun to dance with, especially if they are sloshed. If you were coherent then that's ok. He probably didn't think you were dancing very well in his mind. So he was looking for someone else to dance with. If he liked your... (read in full...)

I want to ask her out but I am a coward. How can I conquer my fear?

Q.   So there's this girl i really like, she's really beautiful and funny and smart and i really want to go out with her. the problem is this: basically, i'm a coward. I'm usually an outgoing person, i have loads of friends and i'm great at making people ...

A.   11 April 2010: First of all ask her to just hang out, is she says no then that means she wouldn't even go out with you. Hang out and see how it goes, then just keep hanging out, tell things heat up, if they do. But you have to ask her yourself by yourself, it ... (read in full...)

I feel like I haven't a friend in the world

Q.   I feel like i haven't a friend in the world. I finished school last year and all my friends went to collage and I didn't get into collage. I did have two close friends but one decided she,d rather be with her boyfriend and the other sees me like ...

A.   6 April 2010: Dude, I don't have any friends either man. But I'm ok with it. All my friends have gone off doing there own thing too. Its called life. I've only got one true friend I can count on and he's about 4000 miles away. You'll meet people, trust me, ... (read in full...)

How do I stop liking this total jerk?!?

Q.   There is a guy i have an /enormous/ crush on. he smokes weed, he drinks, he's in a gang, but he never stops smiling, and he's totally cute. I cannot understand why i can't stop liking him He's abusive. Not like kicking and punching, just lik...

A.   31 March 2010: Well there is your answer, you want attention from this guy. Even though he is a total dushbag, he pays attention to you and you like it, that is why you like him, cause he pays attention to you. Consider this, if it was one of the good guys and ... (read in full...)

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