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female
age
36-40,
*andice m. smith
writes:I am presently in a relationship for past three years and five months. Here's the problem, we both have each others facebook accounts passwords, so I went on his account without his knoweledge recently, not that this is regular thing cause we both trust each other but i just decided to to take a peep just out of curiosity. I went into messages, I read out a conversation he had with a girl that I don't know but apparently she may be a friend of his ex-girlfrien/children mother. And based on what I have read, his ex-girlfriend/ children mother is pregnant with his third child. From then it has been bothering me, tears all over the place and its very hard for and I have not even asked him about it as yet. I love dearly and I don't want to lose him. I'm shocked,heart-broken and disappointed cause I've been faithful to him since I started dating him. Please help me.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy  +, writes (13 January 2013):
 You need to talk about this with him as soon as possible. Try to remain calm. Expect him to deny it.
Maybe take some time away and stay with friends or family. Give yourself some time to get over the shock so that you can think clearly about your future.
All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2013): You might live him dearly, but his actions show that he does not! Figure things out ASAP and leave him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2013): First off you need to talk to him about what you read and make sure that she is actually pregnant by him. Here are your options:If you don't want to lose him, stay and accept that he cheated and more importantly, accept this innocent child.Dump him and move on.Personally, I couldn't stay with someone who not only cheated, but impregnated another woman! That means he is having unprotected sex - I don't know about you, but that alone is a deal breaker for me! Nobody is going to put my life on the line because they can't be faithful! Some std's aren't treatable. Best of luck to you.
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