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*rystalMaze
writes:Okay so I need help. Im in senior school (high school) and i fancy this guy who is really sweet. I have known him since we were 3 and I have liked him for about 6-7 years, but my friends only think Ive liked him for 3. He has always stuck up for me, and been like my big brother (as I am an only child) and we used to be really good friends. When I told him I liked him he went a bit wierd. First he went out with one of my best friends (who at the time didnt know i liked him), and he started talking to me on the way home. He first said to me that he didnt want to go out with me but he liked me a lot and I could kiss him if I wanted. I knew it was wrong while he was going out with one of my friends so I said no. Once they had split up he kept asking if i wanted to and i said yes but im shy and i kept chickening out. He eventually asked me if, instead of me kissing him, if i wanted him to kiss me and he did. It was the best thing ever but I ran off after even though he called after me and things hadnt been the same since. Please dont judge him cos hes a good guy but I want to know. What does it mean that he was so desperate to kiss me, and why, now I had a dream (that he died), have all those feelings come rushig back and I blush everytime i see him, and i want him to kiss me so much, but since hes been weird i can never get him alone?
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reader, CrystalMaze +, writes (21 February 2012):
CrystalMaze is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answer. He has a girlfriend now so I think I'm gonna completely blank him. After 7 years I don't think I deserve to be with someone who is going to mess around with me like that.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (8 February 2012):
 Well it sounds like he likes you, otherwise he wouldnt have wanted to kiss you.
It sounds like you like each other, but you are both being rather childish about it (why on earth did you run off after he kissed you? That pretty much ruined it all right there and then). You just need to tell him how you feel, and tell him you want to be with him properly rather than all this game playing and messing around.
Tell him face to face, over the phone, by text...whatever, but just tell him. That way the ball is in his court and he can then decide - if he feels the same great, if he doesnt well you can move on.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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